It's clear enough haha
I have gone back into the old threads here. Unfortunately, there is a huge amount of discussion from the old CourtTV/InSession board that is no longer around

That's where I posted about this case when they first went missing. Mikey came and posted with us as well, but I don't recall exactly when it was, but it was definitely within the first weeks/months (I recall because some of the posters actually went and handed out flyers at the border and were helping him and the family with this).
But just to put the timing into perspective....
I was able to find an article in the wayback machine from March 31st. Where this was stated:
Susan Blake, McStay’s mother, said she had a sense something was wrong before the family vanished. “Joe told me he wasn’t feeling good that day,” she said. “His equilibrium wasn’t right and I felt that something was wrong.”
New Leads on the Missing McStay Family - New evidence has surfaced on the whereabouts of the disappearance of the McStay family suggesting they may have planned to intentionally disappear in Mexico authorities said. Joseph McStay his wife Summe...
A quote from another article, which I was unable to get on the wayback site but is in an old post here...
"My son had been sick since last August and hes normally a very healthy person," said Blake. "Hes an excellent surfer and soccer player. I even went to the hospital with him to try and see what was wrong; we thought maybe it was stress."
This is when the speculation began here at WS's. You can go read the comments.
https://www.websleuths.com/forums/t...-2-children-bonsall-4-feb-2010-3.99105/page-6
I feel like I knew about his illness before that from IS board through Mikey... but can't be certain. I may try to access my old bookmarks later and see what I can find ... I will have to pull out my old laptop for that (my new one didn't like me trying to get into them last time I tried LOL)
Interestingly enough, I also saw some posts that mention that Summer's mom believed it
was Summer in the border video.