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In the hospitality industry, the oft-cited Burning Man and Gobi desert experiences are classified as ‘Pay ‘n Play’. Pay a fee and handlers will cater to your whims. Devils Gulch is devoid of a ‘pay ‘n play’.They also did not take Miju or Oski to BM or the Gobi Desert.
So we cannot really use their experiences of BM and the Gobi Desert as examples of their behaviours in relation to their daughter. ImoIn the hospitality industry, the oft-cited Burning Man and Gobi desert experiences are classified as ‘Pay ‘n Play’. Pay a fee and handlers will cater to your whims. Devils Gulch is devoid of a ‘pay ‘n play’.
I wonder if they had really had time to go hiking at all with their child. She was less than a year old. They had recently moved.
And, they had a nanny. I think that this is important. Spending time with your baby gives you experience on how he or she acts. Not saying that having a full time nanny is a bad thing, but truthfully, you are spending less time with your child when you have a nanny or your child is in daycare.
Both, first time parents, and with their travels, it did not look like they spent a lot of time with children, until they had one.
I honestly think that they considered Miju a tiny person, who would be fine in the backpack, I don't think that they knew how quickly heat can affect a baby.[/
I don’t think we can speculate on their relationship with Miju. People on here do not know Jon and Ellen or their habits or for how long they employed a nanny. And why should we assume they have less knowledge than many people on here seem to have about the various difficulties they could encounter? First-time parents are more likely to be over-protective as many parents will attest. We can’t speculate on how much time they spent with children prior to having one of their own. I have a cousin with four children whose social media consists of photographs of her dogs. Most people think I spend my time on holiday enjoying myself based on the pics I put on social media - obviously it’s not true. Our social media is illusion not our reality. MOO
I didn’t say they didn’t go hiking with them - I said they didn’t take them to BM or the Gobi desert.If they hiked most weekends, according to friends, who looked after Miju and Oski? And there are photos of Oski out hiking, on and off leash.
Yes that’s true - so why are people using those experiences in comparison to what’s happened? It’s irrelevant imoThe baby wasn't born yet, and International travel with a pet can be complicated and expensive, IMO.
Yes that’s true - so why are people using those experiences in comparison to what’s happened? It’s irrelevant imo
- so why are people using those experiences in comparison to what’s happened? It’s irrelevant imo
AllTrails has sent me to the wrong place 80% of the time.
I thought the trip was a two month once in a lifetime adventure. Not something they did every year. How many times did they do BM?Absolutely relevant, imo. Those somewhat extreme adventures tell us, even in a small way, who these people were. From my experience, it's hard to give up a lifestyle you enjoy when first child comes along. Until you learn you must!
I didn’t say they didn’t go hiking with them - I said they didn’t take them to BM or the Gobi desert.
If they hiked most weekends, according to friends, who looked after Miju and Oski? And there are photos of Oski out hiking, on and off leash.
I thought the trip was a two month once in a lifetime adventure. Not something they did every year. How many times did they do BM?
I thought the trip was a two month once in a lifetime adventure. Not something they did every year. How many times did they do BM?
Didn't Jon play his music at BM?Back when Ellen's Instagram was public, it looked like they went to Burning Man at least three times (could have been more too). I don't recall if they were consecutive years.
Finally, I read the link above about what it's like to die from HS. The convulsions/seizures/vomiting all makes me think of JG found deceased in a seated position. Would this position make sense with how HS affects the body?
I've seen a couple of styled photos of Oski with them in the great outdoors, but a photo is just a moment in time. In this case, it doesn't reveal a whole lot. Moo.
These friends should know at least some of the trails they hiked in the last six months...were they arduous ones, how many times did they take Miju and/or Oski with them and on which trails? I'd like to know. Moo.
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