We probably will never know why NR asked guests at the party if they were famous. My speculation only, rather than grandiosity he did it because he is an obnoxious self-centered jerk knowing it would embarrass his parents. He did not want to go to the party and didn’t bother to get dressed up, went wearing a hoodie knowing other guests wore suits. His parents pleaded with him to dress up a little bit because “there will be famous people there”….Are you famous?
His motive to murder would be revenge if they were no longer were on “his side”, no longer protecting him or willing to harbour him, no longer letting him do as he pleased without any boundaries while living off their dole. That’s not mental illness. It’s not really any different than a spouse who murders a partner after he/she falls out of love. It’s about control, or loss of.
JMO
The Grandiose symptom is often mistaken for your description of a ne’er do well.
Grandiosity refers to a sense of specialness and self-importance that might lead you to:
- boast about real or exaggerated accomplishments
- consider yourself more talented or intelligent than others
- dismiss or try to one-up the achievements of others
- believe you don’t need anyone else to succeed
- believe you’re above rules or ordinary limits
- fail to recognize that your actions could harm others
- lash out in anger when someone criticizes you or points out a flaw in your plans
Grandiosity often resembles self-centered or arrogant behavior, so people often don’t recognize it as a mental health symptom.
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Grandiosity isn’t considered a mental health condition on its own, but it might show up as a symptom of one.
Grandiosity: Everything You Need to Know | Psych Central
Grandiose delusions are arguably the most neglected psychotic experience in research.
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Despite being a common type of delusion (Appelbaum, Robbins, & Roth,
1999; Goodwin & Jamison,
2007) – occurring in about half of patients diagnosed with schizophrenia and two thirds of patients with bipolar disorder(Knowles, McCarthy‐Jones, & Rowse,
2011) – they have been remarkably neglected as a specific focus of research and clinical practice.
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This apparent disparity may have arisen for several reasons. There may be a perception that grandiose delusions represent a more benign presentation in non‐affective psychosis and that they will not be distressing or harmful given the focus of the belief. Alternatively, they may be viewed simply as a symptom of mania in affective psychosis, and therefore, it is presumed that research and clinical focus should be on the manic episode rather than the belief
per se. These assumptions, however, may be erroneous.
Understanding, treating, and renaming grandiose delusions: A qualitative study - PMC
~I’ve check several articles and don’t see where the Reiner’s pleaded with Nick to dress up. Do you happen to have your link basis for “His parents pleaded with him to dress up a little bit”?
I suspect his clothing was the least of their worries at that point.
The only thing I found was on TMZ from a “source” that NR was wearing a hoodie and disheveled and others were dressed formally which in no way equates to the R’s pleading.
Imo, the Reiner’s, with their status, had no concerns about appearances and being very open with their family struggles figure everyone knows Nick is having problems and is now chunky and scruffy contrary to his former self.
There is picture of R, M and NR at an event red carpet type photo and Nick was in a track suit.
I suspect they were keeping him close in those cases no matter what the full grown adult was wearing.
All imo