Cadaver dog hit on scent in DBs bedroom

[KsStormy]

Opps, posted the wrong link, that was the one where Jeremy cusses at the reporter. Here is the 1 year vigil link I was referring to in my post above:

http://www.kctv5.com/story/19726738...ion-still-active-1-year#.UGyz17-JKyE.facebook

 

[Dewey2Me1MoThyme]

I totally agree. She comes off as VERY controlling , claiming her boyfriend's child. The reactions of BOTH boys to her touch struck me as very disturbing in the KCTV5 video of the 1 year vigil... http://www.kctv5.com/video?clipId=7781113&autostart=true&fb_source=message
The older boy doesn't react at ALL to her attempt to comfort him, evn looks scared and bewildered to see her by Grandpa, & the younger child clings to the Grandpa (Jeremy's dad)for comfort but yet runs away from Deborah when she attempts to comfort him. Bizarre.

BBM: Then I guess a select few may consider my wife as "controlling" since she calls my four from a previous marriage her sons and daughters, and talks about "our" grandchildren? I would have to respectfully disagree that this makes someone "controlling". My wife loves OUR children as if they were her own and the same with OUR grandchildren. I would say if anything, it shows she has a love for the children and they are part of the family unit as it is.
Which I may add is more than some women who bare their own children show, and we have many examples of that here at webslueths.

 

[redheadedgal]

db and ji got married? i hadn't heard...


(that is the comparison being made right?)

 

[KsStormy]

BBM: Then I guess a select few may consider my wife as "controlling" since she calls my four from a previous marriage her sons and daughters, and talks about "our" grandchildren? I would have to respectfully disagree that this makes someone "controlling". My wife loves OUR children as if they were her own and the same with OUR grandchildren. I would say if anything, it shows she has a love for the children and they are part of the family unit as it is.
Which I may add is more than some women who bare their own children show, and we have many examples of that here at webslueths.

I think many have a ethical problem with the fact that Deborah Bradley (last we heard) was still married to another man, while living with another. To me, that doesn't show a great deal of commitment to or respect for the man that is supporting her and her child she had with her husband, nor his child that she claims is "hers". Call me old fashioned, but that's how I see it. I am wondering if she is divorced yet, as it appears their financial situation is looking up considerably from what they claim it was ( couldn't afford the cell phone bill) since Lisa's disappearance, as evidenced by their recent remodeling of their home, the new iPad, etc.

 

[Dewey2Me1MoThyme]

I think many have a ethical problem with the fact that Deborah Bradley (last we heard) was still married to another man, while living with another. To me, that doesn't show a great deal of commitment to or respect for the man that is supporting her and her child she had with her husband, nor his child that she claims is "hers". Call me old fashioned, but that's how I see it. I am wondering if she is divorced yet, as it appears their financial situation is looking up considerably from what they claim it was ( couldn't afford the cell phone bill) since Lisa's disappearance, as evidenced by their recent remodeling of their home, the new iPad, etc.

It makes no difference to me if they are married or not, it's how she treats the boys (as her own) that I think is the important thing, and being a mother to them which is more than JI's ex-wife has done for years. IMHO

BBM: Do you have a link for all this money they have allegedly spent, or how their spending habits have changed?

 

[KsStormy]

It makes no difference to me if they are married or not, it's how she treats the boys (as her own) that I think is the important thing, and being a mother to them which is more than JI's ex-wife has done for years. IMHO

BBM: Do you have a link for all this money they have allegedly spent, or how their spending habits have changed?

We don't really know how she treats those two boys behind closed doors, do we?
There are pictures/videos online, I don't have the time to search....
Oh, yes -- the iPad is in the cussing video I accidentally posted, & I believe the pic of the large dumpster they rented for the remodel is in Ron Rugen's thread, or a link to it, etc. They also obviously have $$ for trips to the beauty parlor & tattoo joint, those pics are also available if one takes the time to look.

 

[norest4thewicked]

It makes no difference to me if they are married or not, it's how she treats the boys (as her own) that I think is the important thing, and being a mother to them which is more than JI's ex-wife has done for years. IMHO

BBM: Do you have a link for all this money they have allegedly spent, or how their spending habits have changed?

BBM: Do you have a link on how well she treats the boys? I don't remember reading anything about her being any type of exceptional mother/step-mother.

 

[Dewey2Me1MoThyme]

BBM: Do you have a link on how well she treats the boys? I don't remember reading anything about her being any type of exceptional mother/step-mother.

No I don't have a link, but others have stated here she refers to them as her sons, that tells me all I need to know, and not that she is controlling

 

[Dewey2Me1MoThyme]

We don't really know how she treats those two boys behind closed doors, do we?
There are pictures/videos online, I don't have the time to search....
Oh, yes -- the iPad is in the cussing video I accidentally posted, & I believe the pic of the large dumpster they rented for the remodel is in Ron Rugen's thread, or a link to it, etc. They also obviously have $$ for trips to the beauty parlor & tattoo joint, those pics are also available if one takes the time to look.

I guess this is the same Ron Rugen who had to ask on line whose vehicle was parked in their yard. As for the video, I haven't seen it yet, but I will look. But that won't tell me who paid for the i-pad or if it's even hers I'm guessing, same with the remodel, for all we know, his parents or her family could have paid for it, or friends may have.

ETA: Seeing as JI was at his work truck, for all we know that i-pad could belong to the company.

ETA 2: Since we don't know what she does behind closed doors, I guess we really don't know how controlling she is either.

 

[Donjeta]

Just call me Someone Else, it's my middle name.


Here you go:
http://foxnewsinsider.com/2011/10/1...hey-sold-or-killed-their-daughter/#more-77721

The last video, 58 seconds in: "My kids would know nothing"

 

[cityslick]

I'm still waiting for a link that indicates that LE believes that BL was missing earlier than reported.

 

[KsStormy]

I guess this is the same Ron Rugen who had to ask on line whose vehicle was parked in their yard. As for the video, I haven't seen it yet, but I will look. But that won't tell me who paid for the i-pad or if it's even hers I'm guessing, same with the remodel, for all we know, his parents or her family could have paid for it, or friends may have.

ETA: Seeing as JI was at his work truck, for all we know that i-pad could belong to the company.

ETA 2: Since we don't know what she does behind closed doors, I guess we really don't know how controlling she is either.

WOW...employers are giving out iPads now? :what: As far as people giving them all this stuff, why not $$ to get a divorce? Just sayin'...

We are WAY off topic, back to the Cadaver dog hit:
SOMEONE died in that house, and I don't believe it was just a cooincidence that there is also a missing baby. NO way.:twocents:

 

[norest4thewicked]

No I don't have a link, but others have stated here she refers to them as her sons, that tells me all I need to know, and not that she is controlling

Do you believe that if a person calls someone "their sons or daughters" that it makes them a good parent? The fact that she says this doesn't necessarily mean that she is controlling, but other things that we have seen and heard of her doing could make her appear controlling to some.

 

[Dewey2Me1MoThyme]

Do you believe that if a person calls someone "their sons or daughters" that it makes them a good parent? The fact that she says this doesn't necessarily mean that she is controlling, but other things that we have seen and heard of her doing could make her appear controlling to some.

I believe some just want to nit pick to find something negative, no matter what it is. And no, I do not see how calling the children her sons translates to controlling. What is she suppose to say, my son and that guy? I'm sure that would make JI's son feel a part of the family unit. I would find it sad to be at thanks giving dinner with a family who seperates the kids by bio parents instead of grouping them into small packages of his and hers like bathroom towels.

 

[Dewey2Me1MoThyme]

WOW...employers are giving out iPads now? :what: As far as people giving them all this stuff, why not $$ to get a divorce? Just sayin'...

We are WAY off topic, back to the Cadaver dog hit:
SOMEONE died in that house, and I don't believe it was just a cooincidence that there is also a missing baby. NO way.:twocents:

BBM:Giving out i-pads? Maybe not, but if it was deemed a good way to conduct business, IE: instant access to the millions of codes (try pricing the code books they aren't cheap) or for layout pdf files when wiring a home or business, for keeping track of customers and other contact info, I can see the business owning one for each employee to use, yes I can see that.

I'm not sure about anyone else's circle of friends but I know I would not hand a friend of mine money and say "Go get a divorce"! But I would and have helped people do remodelling when they are facing hard times. I've also rewired homes for free for my friends and fixed furnaces and AC units. Last week a friend of mine gave me a gift certificate to Home Depot to finish up a project I am working on, and he is not even what I would call a close friend, just a caring one. And NO I did not ask for that, it was a complete surprise. Last summer the same guy sent me a $25 gift certificate to Krispy Kream when he learned some other friends were coming to visit on their way to another state. So yes, some people do some pretty darn nice things for people, just to help them out.

If I had gotten paid for all the free work I donated to friends and strangers over the course of my lifetime, I'd have a tidy little nest egg to sit on. I guess maybe we travel in much different circles.

 

[redheadedgal]

"our kids" would work...

re: the dynamics in the house... watch the video of the last vigil that stormy posted above... neither boy has a very positive reaction to her imo... gotta wonder why...

 

[Dewey2Me1MoThyme]

"our kids" would work...

re: the dynamics in the house... watch the video of the last vigil that stormy posted above... neither boy has a very positive reaction to her imo... gotta wonder why...

I just came from my daughter's FB photo album there were pics of her and her significant other's as well as my daughter's daughter putting up a tree and decorating it together. Under the first pic it said "My youngest baby" I guesss one would think she is controlling too? (She did not give birth to this boy) However, I'm done with it, this has nothing to do with dog hits or alleged dog hits, so I'm moving on, hope you all can too.

 

[Clutchbag]

I agree. As a mother of 4, I know there is NO way that baby slept that entire afternoon/evening and the neighbor didn't see nor hear her. NOT possible, unless she were drugged/dead.

Thats subjective and personal experience

I put mybaby down early evening around 6 and she wouldnt stir until 6 or 8 the next morning, she was a sound long sleeper

 

[Truthwillsetufree]

This statement from DB's atty has always bothered me...
“(Being drunk) would explain why she didn’t hear the baby monitor, she didn’t hear the dog barking,’’ Pirro told TODAY’s Ann Curry

If DB was drunk to the point of deafness, how does DB know the dog was barking at all? If DB was so drunk, how does she know the baby monitor was even turned on?

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/10/20/deborah-bradley-baby-lisa-irwin-missing_n_1022905.html

 

[Deleted member 39678]

This statement from DB's atty has always bothered me...
“(Being drunk) would explain why she didn’t hear the baby monitor, she didn’t hear the dog barking,’’ Pirro told TODAY’s Ann Curry

If DB was drunk to the point of deafness, how does DB know the dog was barking at all? If DB was so drunk, how does she know the baby monitor was even turned on?

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/10/20/deborah-bradley-baby-lisa-irwin-missing_n_1022905.html

I couldn't find the quote in your link. Is the "Pirro" who told Ann Curry about the barking dog Judge Jeanine Pirro? She's not DB's attorney.