I agree, its outrageous and ridiculous to me too.It is so insane to imagine that a man who 'snapped', with no history of physical abuse, also had the temerity to strangle his wife then turn her arms inside out in her coat and attach her to the aluminium pool posts. THEN arrange his own suicide to look similar. It is outrageous and at least to me, a ridiculous proposition.
Not even sure if the poater who pushes this theory has said whether he thinks it premeditated or accidental.
If it was accidental I simply cant imagine Barry thinking, “ I need to turn this into an elaborate hoax so people dont think it was me, even though Im going to kill myself”
If premeditated, he could have come with something a lot simpler, and lived to enjoy life by himself.