I am not trying to convince anyone, I get the anger towards them. I also know I have walked a tiny bit closer in their shoes and wouldn't want to be them. They can try to run from the reality of it, but it will be waiting for them when they surrender to it finally.
And not to come across as cold, but what would accepting it do for Caylee? They can't go retrieve her, and the burial is for the family. Caylee was victimized by her mother and if the time of death really is early afternoon June 16th calling the cops sooner or publicly condemning Casey wouldn't change the outcome one bit.
What would accepting it do for Caylee?
It would give her JUSTICE and would solidify indelibly that her innocent life mattered!
It would show Casey that she must take responsibility for what she has done and seek forgiveness from her family and herself.
Most importantly it would BRING HER HOME where she belongs so that she may be properly buried and mourned. Like the human being that she is.
That is what accepting it would do for Caylee.