CO - Dylan Redwine, 13, Vallecito, 19 Nov 2012 - #2

[nikb]

No nothing new and you haven't missed anything. The Mom or Dad are not suspects or person of interest so they are not being discussed as such at this time.

Thanks for the quick reply!

 

[vasportsmom]

I had mentioned this a possible scenario quite a few pages back...

but I must not have been clear...

I do not think that LE put words in mom's mouth...

I do think she probably shared these sentiments with LE soon after the investigation started...

I just wonder if LE did not possibly give mom loose rein on what she wanted to say.... To see who... If anyone... Took the bite...

Are we seeing anyone ( friends, family, community members) becoming outraged at her statements?

LE may possibly be watching for reactions from any of the above... Not just dad...

JMO

I think I responded to someone else that must have took your original question and sort of went a different way with it.

If I am understanding your scenario correctly LE didn't direct Mom at all but knew she had the opinions she expressed and made no attempt to stop her from sharing them more widely. In that situation I really can't support Mom in taking the bait.

The things she said will follow her ex, the father of her children, forever. Can you imagine being the next woman he asks out, the person he interviews with for a job or even a new neighbor? It is out there that a woman that he shared 2 kids and 20 years with believes him capable of killing his own child. That is an extremely serious and life changing accusation if it isn't true.

It is one thing if LE says "Hey, this is what we want you to say. We think it will help us find Dylan quicker." Saying it because you're angry that he isn't cooperating with you isn't right and is counter productive. Even if you believe it with every fiber of your being. JMO


Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

 

[scorekeeper]

We know that if you were free you would have contacted one of us by now, just know that we are looking, hard

http://blogs.westword.com/latestword/2012/11/dylan_redwine_disappearance_colorado.php?page=3

part of a note to Dylan from a family friend

note... i get only 3-4 post of this fb page...does anyone have a fb page that is public

https://www.facebook.com/FindMissingDylanRedwine

 

[IHAVENOCLUE]

LOL! You crack me up, vasportsmom!

Now, if I could only get my husband to carry one of these buttons around the house!

:silly:

 

[vasportsmom]

LOL! You crack me up, vasportsmom!

Now, if I could only get my husband to carry one of these buttons around the house!

Here ya go. I made him his very own special button!




Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

 

[inthedark14]

I think I responded to someone else that must have took your original question and sort of went a different way with it.

If I am understanding your scenario correctly LE didn't direct Mom at all but knew she had the opinions she expressed and made no attempt to stop her from sharing them more widely. In that situation I really can't support Mom in taking the bait.

The things she said will follow her ex, the father of her children, forever. Can you imagine being the next woman he asks out, the person he interviews with for a job or even a new neighbor? It is out there that a woman that he shared 2 kids and 20 years with believes him capable of killing his own child. That is an extremely serious and life changing accusation if it isn't true.

It is one thing if LE says "Hey, this is what we want you to say. We think it will help us find Dylan quicker." Saying it because you're angry that he isn't cooperating with you isn't right and is counter productive. Even if you believe it with every fiber of your being. JMO


Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

VSM, I get what you are saying....I really do. But I have one question...

WHERE IS DYLAN?

A missing child is above and beyond anything that anyone says about someone. PERIOD.

There are way too many ifs in this situation. Way too many why the heck nots. I don't think there is anything concrete that shows the father is responsible for this, but there are a heck of a lot of unanswered questions...I believe if I was the parent I would be shouting out from the roof tops to answer them. I may be wrong, it wouldn't be the first time, but these things HAVE to be addressed and looked at when a CHILD is out there in the world, missing and all alone. I would think that his father's future girlfriends would understand why it had to be questioned.

ALWAYS MOO

 

[cattlekate]

The following is true in Colorado, based on my experience:
1. Unwritten default with two parents living in the same area is 50/50 parenting time.
2. It is VERY hard to move with a minor and not give up custody, even if you are the parent with more time. You need to be, generally, a white collar professional with a forced transfer. Unless the other parent does not exercise the parenting time or general costs of 50/50 and that 2 - 5 year history proves the other parent does not want 50/50.
3. A move makes the overnights go below the magic number 93. That increases child support by about $300 per month for middle class income.
4. However, the moving parent must pay all visit costs, so it's a wash on child support going below the magic overnight number of 93.
5. A minor (under age 19) cannot decide which parent to live with unless the parents agree. Otherwise, there's a child evaluator who does an investigation, at the cost of $2,500 - $5,000. This applies even to a 17 year old high school senior with a job and who wants to earn money for a car and college costs and cannot do the 50/50 because of such job.
6. Colorado stops child support at 19 unless both parents agree to pay for college (unless the primary decree was before 1997). <modsnip>

 

[shefner]

Here ya go. I made him his very own special button!

View attachment 28197


Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

Oh my goodness! LOL Thank you so much, vasportsmom! I love it!
I showed my husband just now...and he laughed so hard.
He says I always get my way around here.
Now doesn't that sound just like a man? Hehe
From the moment the baseball pre-season starts, he controls the remote!
Its like a 10 month sport!!
We have 2 TVs in the house...but we like being together most of the time...so here I sit on my laptop while he coaches the Atlanta Braves from his side of the bed! I have to admit it gets pretty hilarious. He takes his baseball to heart.

Baseball season....thats definitely when he needs that button the most!
:blowkiss:

 

[Bravo]

Did i read way back that Dad was not even responding to the older Sons calls/texts? Whatever went on between the Parents I hope they both are supporting the older Son who is obviously suffering terribly as well.

 

[DylansMom34]

Mark Red wine is supposed to be on KDVR tonight at 9:00

 

[Tennlyn]

Dylan's older brother seems to be by his mother's side. I'm listening carefully to what he is saying, and what he is not saying. I feel for him...CR reminds me of my own son, and Dylan reminds me of my son when he was younger.

 

[vasportsmom]

VSM, I get what you are saying....I really do. But I have one question...

WHERE IS DYLAN?

A missing child is above and beyond anything that anyone says about someone. PERIOD.

There are way too many ifs in this situation. Way too many why the heck nots. I don't think there is anything concrete that shows the father is responsible for this, but there are a heck of a lot of unanswered questions...I believe if I was the parent I would be shouting out from the roof tops to answer them. I may be wrong, it wouldn't be the first time, but these things HAVE to be addressed and looked at when a CHILD is out there in the world, missing and all alone. I would think that his father's future girlfriends would understand why it had to be questioned.

ALWAYS MOO

I wish I knew the answer to that question. Finding him is by far the most important thing here - thus, I said if LE thought putting the allegation out there that Dad is responsible for him being missing then by all means do it and consequences be damned. Get Dylan home and clean up the mess later if that is what it takes.

BUT ...

Throwing that stuff out there for no reason other than he is your ex and won't talk to you is likely to hinder more than help. Look at all the open cases on this board alone where posters have gave up because the public perception is that the child is either a runaway or is dead and just well hidden. We dedicate ourselves to these cases and still find ourselves moving on to new, more urgent cases as time passes. Do you think that the general public is any different? How long do you think they will keep taking 2nd and 3rd looks at little boys that could be Dylan if they believe he is dead?


Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

 

[mck16]

Mark Red wine is supposed to be on KDVR tonight at 9:00

Do you have a link for that station. Or the whole name? tia

 

[DylansMom34]

Do you have a link for that station. Or the whole name? tia

It was some guy that posted on Kevin Torres' facebook that KDVR would be interviewing Mark Redwine at 9:00 tonight. I'm trying to find something to really confirm about the interview but if they are going to interview Mark, it isn't showing up on their website yet.

FWIW, KDVR (Fox 31) is not my preferred news provider in Denver, but maybe they were able to secure an interview

It is www.kdvr.com

 

[Bravo]

Could somebody summerize the Interview? TIA

 

[DylansMom34]

I'll watch Fox tonight and if he is in fact interviewed, I'll post a summary of it.

I better go tell my Dylan it's bedtime so I'm free at 9:00.

 

[scorekeeper]

www.kdvr.com

 

[imamaze]

Just wanted to let you all know I started a Media and Map thread for Dylan.
Dylan Redwine Media and Map Links

 

[justanother]

I haven't read EVERY post, just tried to catch up and i apologize if this has been asked.

Do we have any idea of his internet behavior? His mom called him a techie kid, would it be possible he met someone online?

Where did the 8 PM confirmation come from? Has there been any other news on his phone records/pings?

 

[Bipolar Express]

Just stopping by to see if there's any more news on Dylan