CO- Dylan Redwine, 13, Vallecito, 19 November 2012 - #16

[Eileen730]

I also believe he didnt answer Moms or Coreys calls or texts that evening because he wasnt sure what he was going to say yet? JMO

 

[JustJeannie]

It is curious but when we go into a big store , we do ' divide and conquer' techniques. I send the kids to this area or that, especially if they want things they have to pick like a certain kind of shampoo or something. I'll say you go get ' your stuff' and I'll get groceries and meet you at check out in 10 minutes. I l loathe the store and want out as quick as possible.

I agree with this - I feel the same way, and always did the same. In addition, as I recall when my kids were teenagers, it was not "cool" to walk close to or stay with your parents. So if they weren't in another area of the store, they were always a good bit ahead of or behind me.

eta: That would include walking into and out of the store.

 

[Eileen730]

I dont think Mom lied on NG.
I think she knew exactly what she was doing.

 

[asyousay]

But why didnt they show a pic of him?
Checking out?
Walking with his son?

Im sure they walked in together and probably out?
They are not showing him for a reason I think!

Is it not just because they are not looking for MR?

Do we really need to see a picture of him I'm wondering . What would that prove ?

 

[Eileen730]

Is it not just because they are not looking for MR?

Do we really need to see a picture of him I'm wondering . What would that prove ?

Yes id love to see a pic of him!
And what he purchased.
Id love to see the dynamics between them.

 

[Eileen730]

Is it not just because they are not looking for MR?

Do we really need to see a picture of him I'm wondering . What would that prove ?

It could also prove or disprove he bought a fishing pole!

 

[cluciano63]

The way I see it, AZGrandma is not trying to convince anyone of anything, but is simply sharing her experiences with MR and her fears for Dylan. I would be fearful and even suspicious too, if I had endured an abusive relationship with the person who last saw a child alive. But I do not see where she has accused of anything directly with regards to Dylan.

 

[SuziQ]

Do you have a link for that information, or are you a verified professional? That hasn't been the case in most of the cases I know personally, but I'm not even close to knowing MOST abusers. TIA

I know you didn't ask me. But can i direct you to the "Crimes in the news" or "The missing" threads?

 

[DylansMom34]

I don't believe she lied, it sounded more as if she wanted to say something but couldn't. She did ultimately say that he did take the test.

IMO she got put on the spot by the producers and by NG herself (we've seen this happen before, it really shouldn't be a shock). From the way ER answered the various questions, I could tell she probably knew more about the topic but didn't want to flat out say it, hence, the evasive answers.

Can we ever just agree to disagree about what happened on that 15 seconds on the NG case? To me it has absolutely positively NOTHING to do with Dylan and finding him. ER pleads for her little boy to be returned if not every day, every other day on the Find Dylan facebook page. Why don't we talk about her grief and fears about her little boy? I certainly haven't seen MR do any pleading or writing tearful letters to him. And I suspect he never will.

 

[asyousay]

Yes id love to see a pic of him!
And what he purchased.
Id love to see the dynamics between them.

That is a good point . As in that one shot Dylan does not look happy .

When I would visit my dad and brother on weekends ( I lived with my mum) we was always laughing and joking . So it would be nice to see what they was like together on that evening. As it was the first night they had seen each other in months .

Do we know If this photo is after Dylan had to cancel his plans for the night as that could explain why he is not looking terribly impressed in the photo ?

 

[Linda7NJ]

IMO it's a photo. Nothing more. All it's meant to prove is that he was indeed in Walmart.




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[SuziQ]

NG needs to take an LDT !
Yes Trenton I suppose there has never been
any more info on him ?

I haven't heard of anything in years. Sad.

 

[mmmagique]

I know you are about to get bombarded with questions but I have one too. You said MR signed over his rights to your boys to get out of CS. Was that your idea or his? I only ask because I wonder if he tried the same thing again and ER or a judge turned him down <modsnip>.


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There are generally only a few states that allow this (Texas being one) unless there is another man willing to adopt the children. The courts' thinking on this is that it's better to have two financially responsible parents for the children than one. (I'm not doubting AZGrandma's posts at all, btw, just throwing that out there)

 

[Linda7NJ]

She should have just said "I'm not supposed to talk about the polygraphs" and left it at that.

I know I wasn't the only one scratching my head at the end of that segment wondering who took a polygraph and how they did.

Number one, her child is missing!
Number two, she's not media savvy
Number three, HER CHILD IS MISSING!

So, yeah... She could have just said, I can't discuss that. But since she had a far more important reason for being there, I'll forgive her.


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[TxLady2]

Thank you so very much for those wonderful and kind words. The pain that my children are going through is nothing compared to what ER and CR are going through and they very well know and understand that. Our focus is Dylan, once he is home safe and sound then we can work on the other challenges being put before all of us, but for now, Dylan needs to be home, comfy and cozy in a bed and trying to figure out his Christmas gifts.

azgrandma, thank you for your responses. My heart goes out to your kids.
Do you think it's possible that Dylan is just hiding out somewhere till all this blows over? Or that Mark took him someplace and hid him with friends?
I know that you may be just as puzzled as everyone else, and if you don't want to answer, that's fine. Just wondering what your take is on Dylan's whereabouts. Your posts do sound a little like you know he's alive and safe, so I apologize if I misunderstand things.

 

[Linda7NJ]

azgrandma, thank you for your responses. My heart goes out to your kids.
Do you think it's possible that Dylan is just hiding out somewhere till all this blows over? Or that Mark took him someplace and hid him with friends?
I know that you may be just as puzzled as everyone else, and if you don't want to answer, that's fine. Just wondering what your take is on Dylan's whereabouts. Your posts do sound a little like you know he's alive and safe, so I apologize if I misunderstand things.

IMO Thats called hope. That's what people say when they're holding onto hope by their fingernails. As long as he's still missing, there is still hope. That's what mothers do.


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[mmmagique]

I have a grandkid who wrote me off because her father has filled her with lies about me. Absolute lies. I've loved her, supported her when he wouldn't give them any thing, food, clothing or a place to live. I took her on vacations and always made special time with her. He gets out of prison and tells her a bunch of stuff that isn't true, and voila`, I'm now persona non grata in her life. So to me, that means nothing. All that could mean is there is someone putting a bug in their ear. Not saying so in this case, but I know for a fact it happens because it happened to me.

I'm sorry for that. I know how much that must hurt. But if you had several grandchildren all from two (or three) different parents, and they ALL turned away from you, then that would say more about you, than them, imo.

 

[Linda7NJ]

The way I see it, AZGrandma is not trying to convince anyone of anything, but is simply sharing her experiences with MR and her fears for Dylan. I would be fearful and even suspicious too, if I had endured an abusive relationship with the person who last saw a child alive. But I do not see where she has accused of anything directly with regards to Dylan.

What her posts have done for me is solidify my belief that he has an even longer history of behavior I find very troubling.




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[Dee10]

Re NG I believe ER was talking about 2 separate tests and the questions were mixed up. One that he had taken & she heard was inconclusive, the 2nd one he has been asked to do, but she doesn't know if he has taken it & hopes he does. That is how I decipher it.

 

[Eileen730]

IMO it's a photo. Nothing more. All it's meant to prove is that he was indeed in Walmart.




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