i fully understand what your saying, it just seems when a tragedy or some type of crisis happens, Family members that would normally be angered or upset at or with others, usually would set aside there emotions and come together to help resolve the pending issue.
Instead of this happening, I'm seeing or rather reading quite the opposite, It's easy for someone like myself to think this way, and i first hand have seen my own family members put aside there differences to unite,
This mysterious dissapeareance of Dylan hasn't reunited this Family into working togeather, and from my point of view, the resistance is coming fom the Fathers actions.