Hello everyone! :seeya:
I am new here and found this site because of my interest in finding Dylan. My mother and sister live in Durango, and I have been to Vallecito a few times in the past. There's just something about this little guy that keeps nagging at me. I pray they find him soon!!!
I have been trying to read up and take in all of the "evidence" presented thus far. Having not completed the task, I do have some questions and thought it might save some time if I just posted the questions and received some quick answers from you "seasoned" members.
I was going to answer this last night, but I forgot. I hope I'm not repeating anything, but I'm too lazy to go back and reread everything.
First, it seems to me, MR would have to be the stupidest man on the planet to deliberately plan to have his son go missing the very first day he arrived. This leads me to believe that if MR is involved, it was the result of an accident, or an elaborate hoax to hide Dylan with someone close to him. Lies can be told to Dylan, that he would not, at least in the beginning, know that something was "up." But either of these would put MR at the center of the investigation. Probably not likely.
I also have a hard time seeing him being able to accidentally kill him without leaving any forensic evidence in the home or his vehicle (which would most likely have to be used to move a body.)
Next: There seems to be some confusion as to whether or not MR actually took a polygraph. Why would the authorities not come right out and say he took the test and then tell what the results were? I see this all the time in other missing person cases. Why not this one? Also, have the RSO's in the area taken polygraph tests as well?
LE has come out and said that he took one. They said right from the start that they wouldn't be releasing any information until the case was solved, and they've been pretty well sticking to that. It was said that both parents had taken one, but LE would not release any information about the results. They've said that the RSOs in the area have all had alibis, but nothing was ever said about them being given polygraphs.
I assume the authorities have questioned everyone in the area that might have had someone visiting for the holidays. In a town that seriously thins out after the summer season, I find it strange that anyone would even know that Dylan was at the house. And MR and Dylan supposedly came home after dark, so no one would have seen Dylan going into the house. Perhaps someone living in the area heard MR talk about his son coming to visit? Otherwise, how would anyone even know that Dylan would be at the residence? And that MR would not be home with him?
Dylan, his brother and their mother lived in the area until 4 months before he disappeared. There could be several people in the area that anybody in the family may have talked to that might know. Some of MR's coworkers may have heard about him taking the time off for his son's visit, ER could have mentioned it to a friend (who could have mentioned it to someone else), one or more of Dylan's friends could have mentioned it to someone, or someone else could have heard them talking about him coming, etc. There would, of course, be a lot fewer people who knew MR would be gone, but DR could have mentioned it to someone he was texting that we don't know about, one of his friends could have been texting with someone about it, it
could be just luck, or someone who had heard Dylan would be there may have met MR along the road that morning and saw that he was alone. There really are a lot of possible explanations, even if most aren't very probable.
Thinking along those lines, Dylan's mother and brother live only six hours away. Is it possible someone "they" know could have driven to the home and taken Dylan? Perhaps this person told Dylan he would be taken back to his mother?
Again, they both are likely to still have friends in the area, so it's always possible.
Living in a remote area, MR most likely would feel that his son would be safe while he was away. I don't find the fact that he left Dylan alone while he ran errands a problem. But, I do think it odd that he didn't text Dylan to see if he was up and getting ready or to let Dylan know he would be home at such and such a time.
I believe it was on the official FB page that it was said that MR had said he tried calling a couple of times that morning. Of course, it would be considered a rumor since nobody was at the house with Dylan or in the vehicle with MR. MOO
Also, I find the text from R at 9:27 a little strange: "Call me when you get here too." Bang on the door AND call him? Is it possible that Dylan was talking to R earlier over MR's home phone because the battery on his cell phone died? Perhaps making arrangements to come the next day? Also strange to me is the fact that R didn't send more text messages to Dylan when he failed to show up the next morning. The text at 10:00, "Come to nandos" sounds like R has spoken to Dylan and is giving him further instructions as to his whereabouts. Anyone know what/where "nandos" is?
Interesting thought about calling and knocking. It's possible that the texting he was doing at the house that night was on the ipod. I believe that nando is another friend's nickname.
Could the "kids" involved be helping to hide Dylan? There are lots of empty cabins this time of year. They could be taking food to him. Of course, my argument against this scenario is that by now Dylan would be thinking enough is enough! I do not discount that he could have run away. Thirteen year olds don't think like we do! He could be tired of his family fighting and tired of being pushed around by the courts.
My prayers go out to his family members (all of them!), and especially for those trying to solve the case. I do hope they find him soon so I can quit worrying about him!
I had considered him hiding out with or without (mostly with) the help of his friends, but I don't think they could have managed it for this long, especially keeping it quiet. It's still possible that an adult could be helping him hide, but I think he would have contacted a friend by now. I just don't see many kids that age who would do all the work his friends have done to help find him if they knew he wasn't really missing. MOO