*snipped by me*
Elaine says something that both of us have said, and I want to explain that. "that I picked so wrong" it's not a selfish thing to say or self centered. It's something we both have thought. I won't speak for her but I will speak for myself, I wonder each and every day if I was so freaking stupid to have married and had children with a person that could have harmed the same children he created. My children, Elaine's children. She's not asking if she made poor choices, she asking, did she pick someone that is capable of harming thier child. I don't blame her one bit for hoping she didn't pick wrong and holding on to that hope.