CO- Dylan Redwine, 13, Vallecito, 19 November 2012 - #51

[katydid23]

“All the things that have gone on and the conflict between us has put him in a bad situation,” Mark Redwine said.





So what does MR mean when he says that? It sounds like he is blaming ER for what happened to Dylan, imo.

 

[asyousay]

“All the things that have gone on and the conflict between us has put him in a bad situation,” Mark Redwine said.





So what does MR mean when he says that? It sounds like he is blaming ER for what happened to Dylan, imo.

IMO- He strikes me as somebody that could of hurt Dylan and then spun it in his head so its not actually his fault and Elaine was to blame as she started this all . He does not like taking responsibility at all and there is always a scapegoat :moo:


Just a theory of mine and i am not in anyway saying this is correct

 

[Bayou Mistress]

IMO- He strikes me as somebody that could of hurt Dylan and then spun it in his head so its not actually his fault and Elaine was to blame as she started this all . He does not like taking responsibility at all and there is always a scapegoat :moo:


Just a theory of mine and i am not in anyway saying this is correct

Wow. Again I find myself agreeing that there is someone scapegoating and blaming. Again I find myself disagreeing on who that person is.

 

[Dee10]

“All the things that have gone on and the conflict between us has put him in a bad situation,” Mark Redwine said.





So what does MR mean when he says that? It sounds like he is blaming ER for what happened to Dylan, imo.

OMG I missed that statement! What does that mean is right! It's chilling & sounds like MR knows what happened & why. Notice he didn't say "may have" or "possibly", no he says "has put him in a bad situation."

 

[Bayou Mistress]

“All the things that have gone on and the conflict between us has put him in a bad situation,” Mark Redwine said.





So what does MR mean when he says that? It sounds like he is blaming ER for what happened to Dylan, imo.

I need a context for this statement. Link please?

 

[katydid23]

I need a context for this statement. Link please?

He said it on the DR Phil show. I have to find a transcript link. I just found it in my notes.

ETA: http://denver.cbslocal.com/2013/02/...-dylan-redwines-parents-to-talk-face-to-face/

 

[scorekeeper]

Jumping off your post


Unfortunately just last weekend I came face to face with someone who wanted to beat me but was prevented from doing so by others being present. If they had not been there I suspect I would be dead. Totally out of the blue.....the provocation...I didn't do what HE WANTED ME TO DO. No history of violence ever in the past and he was not drinking. JMO but this kind of person who is full of rage is capable of killing anyone for any reason they may conjure up in their hate filled brain. JMO FWIW I consider myself lucky to be alive.

(((MissJ))) so glad there were others present; pent up rage can happen at any time with any warning, even from those we think are "easy going". So glad you are safe. :seeya:

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Am also look forward to hearing Elaine tonight. It would be great if Mark would also be a future guest.

 

[Bayou Mistress]

He said it on the DR Phil show. I have to find a transcript link. I just found it in my notes.

Then I would tend to believe that MR was referring to the finger-pointing and blaming being not helpful in the search for Dylan.

 

[katydid23]

I know some people do. I see bitterness and jealously too unfortunately. We will have to agree to disagree on the source while we agree that it does exist.

Why would ER be jealous of Mark? She had moved on to a much better life. She had a great new job, and a newly remodeled beautiful home, and a successful fiancé, and had both of her sons with her. Why would she be jealous of Mark?

 

[katydid23]

“All the things that have gone on and the conflict between us has put him in a bad situation,” Mark Redwine said. “Is it enough to make him run away? I would choose to say no, but who knows what goes on in a 13-year-old’s head?”

http://denver.cbslocal.com/2013/02/...-dylan-redwines-parents-to-talk-face-to-face/

 

[asyousay]

If you strangle somebody ( no blood) would that still leave loads of DNA if you quickly remove the body from the house?


i have no idea on how this stuff works and so thought i would ask on here .

 

[Bayou Mistress]

Why would ER be jealous of Mark? She had moved on to a much better life. She had a great new job, and a newly remodeled beautiful home, and a successful fiancé, and had both of her sons with her. Why would she be jealous of Mark?

Are those the measures of a better life? Mark had a job. He (by his account) had a close relationship with Dylan, took lengthy vacations to ball parks, and appeared to be trying to make the relationship with his youngest son everything that his relationships with the older sons are not. Mark bought a modest home on Lake Vallecito and had no reason for jealousy. I guess it comes down to what makes life worth living. Love? Improving relationships with loved ones? Being self-sufficent? I don't know. Everyone is different.

 

[katydid23]

Are those the measures of a better life? Mark had a job. He (by his account) had a close relationship with Dylan, took lengthy vacations to ball parks, and appeared to be trying to make the relationship with his youngest son everything that his relationships with the older sons are not. Mark bought a modest home on Lake Vallecito and had no reason for jealousy. I guess it comes down to what makes life worth living. Love? Improving relationships with loved ones? Being self-sufficent? I don't know. Everyone is different.

I thought you were implying that ER was jealous of Mark so I was asking what she would have been jealous of?

When Mark speaks about his very close bond with Dylan, imo, he is somewhat delusional. Dylan had drifted away as he grew older and as he found out more about his father.

IMO< Mark was very jealous of Elaine. He was angry that she was going to REMARRY the man she was with when she first met Mark. He was angry that she had both of the boys home with her. He was angry that she got a big promotion and moved on to a bigger city, closer to her family. JMO

 

[Deleted member 39678]

If you strangle somebody ( no blood) would that still leave loads of DNA if you quickly remove the body from the house?


i have no idea on how this stuff works and so thought i would ask on here .

Are you asking about DNA or the scent of human decomposition that a HRD dog is trained to detect?

 

[azgrandma]

Why would ER be jealous of Mark? She had moved on to a much better life. She had a great new job, and a newly remodeled beautiful home, and a successful fiancé, and had both of her sons with her. Why would she be jealous of Mark?

IMO there is nothing for her to be jealous of. She filed for divorce, she moved on with her life, oh the list goes on and on. I believe that there is a pattern of MR blaming everyone and not ever accepting any responsibility for anything at all, it seems that a few agree with that line of thinking. IMO MR has shown extreme resentment for EH's having been able to move onward and upward in her life. IMO the "Mrs. Redwine" was clearly to remind EH that he had ownership of her at one time and felt as if he still did.

 

[DylansMom34]

I'm so glad that Elaine will be on with Tricia again tonight. Anxious to hear from her again, she has so much strength and dedication to Dylan!

 

[asyousay]

Are you asking about DNA or the scent of human decomposition that a HRD dog is trained to detect?

both , also i know there was a search of the house but was dogs brought in at that stage?

 

[azgrandma]

If you strangle somebody ( no blood) would that still leave loads of DNA if you quickly remove the body from the house?


i have no idea on how this stuff works and so thought i would ask on here .

DNA would be present regardless of how the person was murdered. IMO it's a huge guessing game by LE, they would have to be able to determine where the DNA would be in order to collect it. IDK how they would be able to examine something large, such as an entire couch, there are so many areas that DNA could be, how would they ever determine if they got the right spot. Amazes me.

 

[azgrandma]

I'm so glad that Elaine will be on with Tricia again tonight. Anxious to hear from her again, she has so much strength and dedication to Dylan!

I'm glad she's going to be on the show too! I thought MR was going to be on, guess I was mistaken or they haven't heard back from him yet. It sure would be nice to get some questions or info straight from him though.

 

[cluciano63]

In Ayla Reynolds case, LE said they found an amount of her blood, but it still has not been able to move them forward to an arrest, as apparently the amount was not enough to prove death. They have made it pretty clear that they believe her father is responsible, though.

No way of knowing if anything has been found in Dylan's case pointing to a possible crime scene, since LE is far less open in this case. But they did say something about just needing that one more piece of the puzzle, if I remember correctly, which seems an odd thing to say if they suspected a random abduction. JMO