Hi Tonto!
I don't believe taking a nap is evil at all. I just have a problem connecting the dots because I do not see where Mark's actions and his words mesh. Here is an example from the MB interview.
Mark Redwine:
Well, we had talked about a couple things
he was here for such a short time, we didnt have anything nailed down, you know, I anticipated and was correct in assuming he wanted to spend time with his friends, so that Monday, Tuesday
Wednesday was kind of up in the air because that was the day we could either travel to Colorado
.err not Colorado Springs but Castle Rock where my brother lives, cos he had made mention about wanting to go over there,
or he could hang out with his friends and come up here, you know
just the two of us would spend Thanksgiving and then he could focus on spending the rest of the time he was here with his friends.. you know... I mean
I just wanted him to be happy. So, when he wants to spend time with his friends I get that I understand that. I have no problem with that.
All I need to know is that hes safe and where hes at, and how to get a hold of him, and its likely Ill pop in on him -- Check to make sure hes at where he says hes at. Those things were important to me. You know
when hes with me its me and him, with the exception of his friends. You know
I know those are important to him, but
you know
I monitor what he does, where hes at. You know
its just me and him. Theres not people coming and going in my life cos everything I focus on is him and us being together spending that time.