CO- Dylan Redwine, 13, Vallecito, 19 November 2012 - #6

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  • #861
I dont know about anyone else but this jumped ut at me.
BBM
Nickelodeon?


The next morning, Dylan was sleeping on the couch where Mark Redwine now sits and where Dylan's blankets still lie jumbled. Mark said he waited until 7:30 a.m. but still couldn't rouse his son, so he told him he would return about 11. When he got back at 11:30, his son's dirty cereal bowl was beside the sink. The television was on Nickelodeon. His son's fishing pole was gone. So was his black-and-gray backpack. A few articles of clothing were left behind on the couch.

Read more: With Dylan Redwine missing for almost two weeks, dad clings to hope - The Denver Post http://www.denverpost.com/breakingnews/ci_22108222#ixzz2DtmrBa3t
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  • #862
I've never been divorced or even had children, but I did not think that child support was to be used for things like mortgage? I thought it was for the child's clothes, food and health care, basically. Wouldn't the other things fall under alimony?

Child support is to reimburse the other parent for all the things that go into caring for the child, including putting a roof over their head. (and a million and one other things)
 
  • #863
I dont know about anyone else but this jumped ut at me.
BBM
Nickelodeon?


The next morning, Dylan was sleeping on the couch where Mark Redwine now sits and where Dylan's blankets still lie jumbled. Mark said he waited until 7:30 a.m. but still couldn't rouse his son, so he told him he would return about 11. When he got back at 11:30, his son's dirty cereal bowl was beside the sink. The television was on Nickelodeon. His son's fishing pole was gone. So was his black-and-gray backpack. A few articles of clothing were left behind on the couch.

Read more: With Dylan Redwine missing for almost two weeks, dad clings to hope - The Denver Post http://www.denverpost.com/breakingnews/ci_22108222#ixzz2DtmrBa3t
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Monday mornings 7am to 10:30 am is SpongeBob, Max and Ruby and Dora the Explorer.
 
  • #864
I dont know about anyone else but this jumped ut at me.
BBM
Nickelodeon?


The next morning, Dylan was sleeping on the couch where Mark Redwine now sits and where Dylan's blankets still lie jumbled. Mark said he waited until 7:30 a.m. but still couldn't rouse his son, so he told him he would return about 11. When he got back at 11:30, his son's dirty cereal bowl was beside the sink. The television was on Nickelodeon. His son's fishing pole was gone. So was his black-and-gray backpack. A few articles of clothing were left behind on the couch.

Read more: With Dylan Redwine missing for almost two weeks, dad clings to hope - The Denver Post http://www.denverpost.com/breakingnews/ci_22108222#ixzz2DtmrBa3t
Read The Denver Post's Terms of Use of its content: http://www.denverpost.com/termsofuse

As a mother of five... I wonder why a 13 year old boy would wake up and turn on Nickelodeon on a weekday morning, considering the content in the mornings is geared towards preschoolers.

Doesn't add up to me.
 
  • #865
Monday mornings 7am to 10:30 am is SpongeBob, Max and Ruby and Dora the Explorer.

Ok but my kids gave up Nickelodeon way before the age of 13 Maybe im wrong
Why would he watch Dora the explorer?
 
  • #866
I dont know about anyone else but this jumped ut at me.
BBM
Nickelodeon?


The next morning, Dylan was sleeping on the couch where Mark Redwine now sits and where Dylan's blankets still lie jumbled. Mark said he waited until 7:30 a.m. but still couldn't rouse his son, so he told him he would return about 11. When he got back at 11:30, his son's dirty cereal bowl was beside the sink. The television was on Nickelodeon. His son's fishing pole was gone. So was his black-and-gray backpack. A few articles of clothing were left behind on the couch.

Read more: With Dylan Redwine missing for almost two weeks, dad clings to hope - The Denver Post http://www.denverpost.com/breakingnews/ci_22108222#ixzz2DtmrBa3t
Read The Denver Post's Terms of Use of its content: http://www.denverpost.com/termsofuse

Wait, didn't Dylan's mom have to bring clothing for the search dogs? Why wasn't the clothing on the couch used? Very odd...
 
  • #867
Well ain't that a surprise.

According to media reports, LE hasn't called MR a suspect (or have they, unbeknownst to the public?).

If LE hasn't accused MR of a crime, why then, the need for a defense attorney's advice regarding "accusations" - unless he's planning on bringing a libel suit? If LE hasn't accused and/or charged him with a crime, who cares what the public may think?

ETA: Furthermore - why would a father of a recently missing child be concerned with a possible libel suit? IMO, I think he was consulting an attorney because of the recent forensic search of his home & vehicles.

BBM

Most people would have contacted an attorney long before he did, it makes more sense than going through everything he has without one. Several people here mentioned days ago that they were surprised he hadn't contacted one yet because they would have. MOO because I'm too lazy to look up links.

IMO, it sounds as if MR may be adding to/adjusting his timeline, after meeting with investigators & hearing their questions.
I haven't heard/read anything he's said that shows that. Originally he wasn't talking to the press and we only got information from other people (who weren't there) or speculation by media and WS members. Just because we didn't know that something had happened, it doesn't mean that he hadn't already told it to LE.

Original story: Dad left at 7:30 to do errands, son was out like a light, Dad returns at 11:30 and 'notices' son is missing along with fishing pole.

Version 2.o: Dad had to leave for errands, but first he nudged his boy gently awake, to promise him he would be back to give him a ride to his friends house later, and his son acknowledged everything he said, and then when he came home and found he was gone, he began texting him, and waited for a reply, all afternoon.
Same as above. Most of what we heard originally had come from the "family" friend, not from MR or LE.
I know - right?

And in his media appearances, he makes it a point to come across as oh so soft spoken & oh so gentle - all the while his ex-wife is describing him as something different.

Let's see - who's version will I tend to believe? Based on my expereince, I think I'll go with ER's description.
BBM

That's the problem here; I always take comments a woman makes about her ex-husband with a grain of salt. Even if he does have a bad temper, that doesn't mean he can't be soft spoken when he's not having a tantrum.

And he is trying to deal with the added weight of knowing that some people think he had something to do with his son's disappearance because he was the last one to see him. He has contacted a criminal-defense attorney to help him with that.
http://www.denverpost.com/breakingnews/ci_22108222

Again I must ask: why would a father of a missing child contact a criminal defense attorney because his ex-wife had made a statement to the media that she felt her ex may be involved in her son's disappearance?

I call BS on why he claims he contacted a criminal defense attorney.

IMO, it probably has more to do with the recent "official interview" with LE and with the questions that were probably asked during the course of that official interview.
BBM

I really don't know what difference it makes why he contacted one. Most people would, and it in no way means that a person is guilty if they do. If it were because of the search and interview, wouldn't he have been more likely to contact one before they were done rather than after?

I'm not sure anymore where the report came from that Mom had to bring items of his from CS with her. It was stated at the time it was because Dad had nothing of Dylan's to use for a scent.

I also wondered, I remember a post that after Dad called Mom and told her Dylan was missing, she called the Sheriffs office and jumped in the car and made the trip to Vallecito. I wonder if she was told at that time to bring something of Dylan's for scent. A lot was made of her having to bring something with her. I wonder when that request was made. So early on, why would the police ask her to do that instead of just getting something for Dad?
It's never made sense to me that she brought scent items with her. She has said that (as I understood it by her phrasing) that she found out he was missing and was on the road, with CR, by 5:30; and it sounded like she called LE on her way. That would mean she knew immediately that she needed to bring something with - before talking to LE. If she hadn't packed something of his beforehand, it would have meant driving all the way home to get something and then driving back. I'm sure we would have heard about that if it had happened.

I do wonder if anyone else ever saw the cereal bowl and other things mentioned. I don't know how most guys are, but I know that MOST of them I know would have put away things laying on the couch, and washed (or at least rinsed) the bowl and spoon. I would probably have left them. :blushing:
 
  • #868
As a mother of five... I wonder why a 13 year old boy would wake up and turn on Nickelodeon on a weekday morning, considering the content in the mornings is geared towards preschoolers.

Doesn't add up to me.

I agree.
 
  • #869
Lots of new info from dad. They went to Walmart and McDonald's. Dylan wanted to see friends that night dad said no. Dylan slept on the couch, cereal bowl beside sink from when dad returned to house. Backpack, fishing pole missing.

http://www.denverpost.com/breakingnews/ci_22108222

Oh my goodness, if they can confirm this, I may have to get back on the fence. One thing that does bother me is the "few articles of clothes" mentioned. They almost certainly would be something thrown off in a hurry, not the clean clothes he brought with him. So *why* didn't dad have something to give the scent dogs?
 
  • #870
Oh my goodness, if they can confirm this, I may have to get back on the fence. One thing that does bother me is the "few articles of clothes" mentioned. They almost certainly would be something thrown off in a hurry, not the clean clothes he brought with him. So *why* didn't dad have something to give the scent dogs?

That's the biggest thing that jumped out of that article to me!
 
  • #871
Wait, didn't Dylan's mom have to bring clothing for the search dogs? Why wasn't the clothing on the couch used? Very odd...


Hey,

What if it was all clean clothings lying around?
 
  • #872
Ok but my kids gave up Nickelodeon way before the age of 13 Maybe im wrong
Why would he watch Dora the explorer?

I know adults who like Spongebob, and he may have left before Dora was on. I have no idea who Max and Ruby are.
 
  • #873
Well ain't that a surprise.

According to media reports, LE hasn't called MR a suspect (or have they, unbeknownst to the public?).

If LE hasn't accused MR of a crime, why then, the need for a defense attorney's advice regarding "accusations" - unless he's planning on bringing a libel suit? If LE hasn't accused and/or charged him with a crime, who cares what the public may think?

ETA: Furthermore - why would a father of a recently missing child be concerned with a possible libel suit? IMO, I think he was consulting an attorney because of the recent forensic search of his home & vehicles.

Maybe someone who cares for him suggested it may be in his best interests to retain an attorney? Everyone is entitled to representation, and if I were in his shoes, I'd probably get it. Not everyone who gets sent to prison is guilty, but I bet a high percentage of the innocent ones didn't lawyer up, or at least didn't lawyer up in time.
 
  • #874
There is more than one Nick channel...teen nick, nicktoons, nick jr. Those are off the top of my head. Obviously I have no idea what his cable provider had.
 
  • #875
I wonder if that cereal bowl was washed also.
 
  • #876
There is more than one Nick channel...teen nick, nicktoons, nick jr. Those are off the top of my head. Obviously I have no idea what his cable provider had.

Oh I know that i have teen boys it just struck me as odd is all.
 
  • #877
I wonder where the dad was Monday afternoon when he was texting Dylan. Was he at home "with spotty cell reception". So he does have cable (and probably internet) at his house.

I wonder if he was remembering back to a time when Dylan would watch Nickelodeon....sounds like a reflection. I would think most 13 years olds would be past those programs....
 
  • #878
I know adults who like Spongebob, and he may have left before Dora was on. I have no idea who Max and Ruby are.

I tolerate Spongebob, but I wouldn't go out of my way to watch it, especially as a teenager. Since his dad had cable/satellite, I'm sure he would've turned it to something else at that age... like MTV perhaps...
 
  • #879
Just got home from work and trying to catch up. Now that we know some clothes were left behind, i think this fact can be added to the reasons why LE ruled out that Dylan is a runaway. If he ran away, you would think he would take all of his clothes with him. ( sorry if this has already been mentioned. I'm guilty of skimming the thread)
 
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