Youre so right. I'm a stepmom,too. But even though that boy is my stepson, his well-being is #1! He is an adult now but omgosh, he has been "mine" for 20 years....I just can't imagine not taking care of any child. But the minute I fell in love, my mans son was #1 right along with my own kids...these step parents...idk, I mean, REALLY?!?!?
That's because you're a good and normal human being.