How do we know KB and PF are engaged? Mom is reporting this, but PF has not confirmed. The baby is 15 mos, add 9 mos and they were a couple 2 years ago. Mom’s explanation that they didn’t get married yet because of financial reasons seems weak. KB bought her town home in that timeframe. And we have seen reports that as a farrier he makes good money. So why aren’t they married yet?
I doubt they are really engaged. I bet their only relationship is exchanging the baby. And I have seen reports that he has the baby more than her because of her work. So having the baby for long periods without talking to KB might not be unusual. Not every mom is totally committed to motherhood. There are plenty of mom’s who don’t dote over their kids.
And as religious as KB’s mom is, how do we know the engagement story wasn’t just something KB told her to mitigate the fact she was an unwed mother?
If they are not engaged, PF can’t come out now and say it because the court of public opinion would say he was lying to divert suspicion. But by NOT correcting it, he looks like a guy who didn’t really love his fiancé. He’s stuck now.
But if I were asked to bet on it, I would bet a whole paycheck that the engagement was a story KB told her mom to keep her off her back. We have absolutely no proof of it.
And the total lack of friends of KB, or even coworkers, who are in her life right now, means all we have are her mom’s “facts.” And she has no independent verification of what she knows.
My daughter was murdered when she was 22. She was shot along with another young lady by her ex-boyfriend. All the way through his trial, everyone portrayed her as good friends with the other victim. But that was not true. They were acquaintances at best. But the narrative was more interesting if they were friends and so that’s the story that was out there. But only the parties involved in a relationship will ever truly understand it. Not their friends or coworkers. And not their families. Everyone only knows what they are told. And I find it extremely telling that no one has come forward to corroborate the engagement story.
If PF hurt her, either by accident or on purpose, he should pay dearly. But... if he didn’t, then all those who have convicted him already should be ashamed that you didn’t spend more time actually looking for her. And I tend to think he didn’t do it.