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It's all just a guess at this point, isn't it?
But, I'd go with the she's always had the hots for him, and experienced great sadness when her life went a different direction, but never forgot the emotional thrill he gave her. She became depressed/bummed/lost after her divorce from CL and the weight gain and stagnant life got to be too much. PF comes back into her life and she see's rainbows, hot romance and a possible future. All those initial "girl in love" feelings came flooding back.
It's truly amazing, and frightening, how much control a narc can have over you...and how easily it is to wear blinders, under the right circumstances.
Still - murder solicitation?!? At what point does that red flag become a high intensity sunspot? She had plenty of opportunity to run from this, and she chose not to.
So, IMO, she's either a crazed, love-lorn woman, or evil. Probably a bit of both.
MOO - I think she's the narc (with psychopathic traits) and he's a sociopath/psychopath. Narcs are concerned with physical appearance and being admired. He shows no signs of that or the attention seeking. Both are extremely manipulative and controlling personality types and liars. The number one pass time between a couple like that would scheming. I think you're right about the "girl in love" because narcs idealize before they devalue and discard and she was probably in the ideal love phase, putting him him on a pedestal. Just imagine the pathology between these two. Poor Kelsey, it was like Satan, himself, was swirling around her and her baby girl.
