Respect to you, I think you know that, gitana1.
I just don't see anything sexist here. There are women who can be manipulative with men- most don't partake in a murder or ask their man to murder the one she is angry and jealous of. But there are other ways that some women, just like some men, can manipulate someone of the opposite sex to do something they either don't have the courage to do themself or they expect that person to prove their love for them. For example, let's say a man is having an affair, his side love threatens to end it because she wants a commitment, or she wants him to move in with her- some men do this. Same in the opposite direction, too.
I don't think anyone had intentions of being sexist in terms of Krystal. I think every one of us is just too horrified at what came out during that hearing. Unfortunately, SF plead the 5th, and Patrick isn't talking, so naturally, everyone is picking apart things Krystal has said and done.
I can only imagine what would happen, if Patrick told his side- I sincerely doubt he's going to agree with Krystal on everything that happened and agree he is a manipulative jerk that killed a beautiful and lovely lady, the mother of his child. I think if he ever does talk, he's going to put the blame all on Krystal. When he told her to come to Kelsey's townhouse because "you have a mess to clean up"- that comment leaves me with many questions, to be honest. Why would Krystal have a mess to clean up- he's the one who wanted her gone, right? So why would Krystal go along with this and do it? Help build a fire, watch him carry the tote from his truck- the tote he said Kelsey was in. Do we believe that she didn't truly know that Kelsey was in there? I mean, gross as this sounds, wouldn't she have wanted to know that Kelsey was really in that tote, just in case she got caught by LE for the actions she partook in the past three months?
Again- I truly respect you, and I don't want to argue over this. Perhaps we just see it a little differently, and that's ok. That's what makes WS great- the various thoughts and opinions.