Could the slow down in family videos be from them physically being apart in July and August? SW in NC, CW in CO.
SW had her little girls with her, and the stay in
NC should have been a very happy time with the girls doing fun things with grandma, grandpa and the uncle. There should have been many things to capture on video and share on FB. JMO, I don't think this was a happy time for SW.
It is hard to say whether SW had confirmed an affair or affairs before she went to NC, but JMO, I don't think so. SW had told a friend or friends that CW wasn't being his normal, loving self and SW was starting to wonder if he was having an affair because of his attitude change. JMO.
SW's suspicions may have grown very serious when she got to NC. He may have been with AP and wasn't answering her calls and was slow to return calls, not calling her as frequently as normal, etc. JMO
A combination of attitude change and lack of accountability from their husband is enough to turn many wives into detectives. I tend to think SW discovered the affair or affairs when she was in NC. It appears the first any of SW's friends heard of a separation was when the beautician who worked with SW's mother mentioned it in an interview. JMO. I recall one of the very early interviews with N. In this interview, she said when she called CW when she was at the house on Monday, he started to tell her about a separation and that was the first she'd heard of that and it was out of context for what was going on at the moment, and she told him "you either will or won't work that out." Her only concern at that time was finding SW and the girls and making sure they were ok.
The one thing I've not seen mentioned is why CW went to NC for the last week. Was his trip to NC planned when SW made her plans for the trip or was it a last minute thing. Does anyone know?[/QUOTE]
Let’s not forget the MIL bringing ice cream w/peanuts into the home despite one of the girls extreme allergies. That happened about the same time the video posts slowed down. That put a huge strain on SW relationship w/the MIL (or perhaps emded it completely) and no doubt that spilled over to tension between CW and SW, especially if he was close to his parents. We know the peanut thing happened, we have no evidence SW found out about the affair. Only that the thought had crossed her mind that he might be having one.