“Everything happens for a reason.”
—Shanann Watts
This is statement is just so wildly ironic I can’t get over it.
As I ponder my own difficult experiences and try to turn my own situations around for the positive, I wonder what “reason” she would say there ultimately is for the murder of her and her three children. And by her husband. And father of their children.
What would Shanann say to this??
We are all here trying to figure out the same thing, why did this happen. Shanann, I don’t think there is a “reason”, or at least I don’t know what that is, other than perhaps his own selfishness and rage (and other associated negative emotions and perhaps illness imo), and darkness.
But IF there is to be a reason for what happened to you girls, then we have to make it a positive one and find it, if that’s truly what you believe, as far as helping to make some kind of positive difference/effect in your honor, through your spirits that have been sacrificed for this “reason”. That’s the only thing I can think of as far as there being any kind of remote positive or “reason” as to what happened to you all. So if we are to internalize your words and accept them as truth as to “everything happens for a reason”, which you seemed to so passionately believe, what would you want that “reason” to be? What IS that “reason”? I’ve always said as regards to Jessica Ridgeway that there really is “no such thing as justice”, because nothing can ever bring her back or take away from the pain, physical and mental, that she and her family suffered.
Family was clearly most important to you, and achieving your dreams and working hard...
Maybe there’s also a residual message out there for us to keep our own eyes open wider and be careful about whom we choose to love...(but if there were no signs...).
This is all sooo difficult.
We talk about the production of Lucas’ Law, Sherin’s Law...what would you (SW) like for “Shanann’s Law” to be, metaphorically speaking—meaning, what was the real “reason” that this happened to you all in the big scheme of things (since you said you believe this)...and would you STILL believe this? Even after your own children being murdered? IS there really a reason?? I’m obviously struggling with all of this, even on a deep “spiritual” level..
I guess we feel this way about all murder victims, there is no reason, for example of the top of my head, say little Gabriella Doolan or Maddie Middleton or Jenise Wright or Bella Cannella or Jessica Ridgeway and everyone else young and old being violated and/or killed.
The world is a beautiful and awful place at the same time.
This type of perp, I’m truly flabbergasted myself here because I too have been sooooooo deluded myself and fooled in love. I relate with you (SW) in many ways. And inspired how you dealt with your medical issues so strongly. I’m trying to figure out how people can be so awful. There is no answer other than they just are.
@Colorado303 , in what way do you think that Shanann would explain here, now, how “everything happens for a reason”??