AmaranthaRuth
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Wow, this thread is moving so fast it’s impossible to keep up with, even while spending way too much time checking it morning & night...
One thing I noticed, in one of SW’s FB videos caught my attention & I’m wondering if anyone else noticed (& forgive me if it’s been mentioned and I missed it.)
The Saturday morning, half-hour or so vid: (“Saturdays with Thrive” or something.) She’s wearing lavender shirt or Pj’s and the girls are vying for her attention... CW is in the background playing with them off & on but there’s no little to no interaction between SW & CW.
Shan’ann looks to me like she’s been crying or perhaps is really sleep deprived (maybe both.) Still, she’s troopering along because that’s who she is — and it’s part of her job to make these upbeat vids, too. (Which can’t be easy in a difficult situation like theirs.)
She eventually goes out on the deck to keep talking. (The girls are inside with CW in this one.) IMO she doesn’t feel safe saying what she has to say in front of him.
It looks to me like she’s flustered, worried, preoccupied. She keeps saying she’s ‘rambling...’ — which is a bit unusual in this case based on what I’ve seen. She’s generally pretty darn articulate.
It strikes me that there’s almost a cry for help type element. There’s a touching genuineness in this video (and others.)
She mentions something about ‘the haters, like...’ and then casts an eye pointedly in the direction of CW, inside the house.
It’s a pretty telling microexpression IMHO. Especially watching the whole video & taking in the context.
Did anybody else notice this?
Lest I seem to be ‘blindly’ siding with SW, I’ll also say that after watching a batch
of videos with CW, I could see a gentle side to him which could be endearing and compelling. I felt somehow bad for him. And I was confused, unsettled and even a bit shocked to realize I felt this.
I want to think there’s a human person inside him. But, if so, how could he do what he did?
I realized that all this left me asking unanswerable questions like some I still wrangle with regarding my ex, who had a charming, gentle side... and a nightmarish side behind closed doors.
I got away; it’s been over two years and I still struggle with the trauma. But after following this case, I am so glad I managed to leave. (At great cost to my quality of life, I might add. It was a long and sordid saga. But, I am still alive, with a chance to rebuild.)
It really looks to *me* like SW was in the process of leaving. And, I do believe she greatly valued her marriage and family (and not just because they ‘made her look good.’ I believe she loved her sweet little girls and her husband, with all her heart.) So this makes me wonder what else was going on.
This is just so heartbreaking, all the more so because there are no simple answers.
Sure, it looks to me like CW is guilty as sin for all the murders. And yet, he looks to be doing his best to be a good husband and dad in many of the videos. (Certainly not the porch LE interviews, though. He looks like he’s trying to look calm, but his voice is shaking, he’s gulping & his breathing is unsteady.)
This is just a heartbreaker of a case.
Sorry so long!
One thing I noticed, in one of SW’s FB videos caught my attention & I’m wondering if anyone else noticed (& forgive me if it’s been mentioned and I missed it.)
The Saturday morning, half-hour or so vid: (“Saturdays with Thrive” or something.) She’s wearing lavender shirt or Pj’s and the girls are vying for her attention... CW is in the background playing with them off & on but there’s no little to no interaction between SW & CW.
Shan’ann looks to me like she’s been crying or perhaps is really sleep deprived (maybe both.) Still, she’s troopering along because that’s who she is — and it’s part of her job to make these upbeat vids, too. (Which can’t be easy in a difficult situation like theirs.)
She eventually goes out on the deck to keep talking. (The girls are inside with CW in this one.) IMO she doesn’t feel safe saying what she has to say in front of him.
It looks to me like she’s flustered, worried, preoccupied. She keeps saying she’s ‘rambling...’ — which is a bit unusual in this case based on what I’ve seen. She’s generally pretty darn articulate.
It strikes me that there’s almost a cry for help type element. There’s a touching genuineness in this video (and others.)
She mentions something about ‘the haters, like...’ and then casts an eye pointedly in the direction of CW, inside the house.
It’s a pretty telling microexpression IMHO. Especially watching the whole video & taking in the context.
Did anybody else notice this?
Lest I seem to be ‘blindly’ siding with SW, I’ll also say that after watching a batch
of videos with CW, I could see a gentle side to him which could be endearing and compelling. I felt somehow bad for him. And I was confused, unsettled and even a bit shocked to realize I felt this.
I want to think there’s a human person inside him. But, if so, how could he do what he did?
I realized that all this left me asking unanswerable questions like some I still wrangle with regarding my ex, who had a charming, gentle side... and a nightmarish side behind closed doors.
I got away; it’s been over two years and I still struggle with the trauma. But after following this case, I am so glad I managed to leave. (At great cost to my quality of life, I might add. It was a long and sordid saga. But, I am still alive, with a chance to rebuild.)
It really looks to *me* like SW was in the process of leaving. And, I do believe she greatly valued her marriage and family (and not just because they ‘made her look good.’ I believe she loved her sweet little girls and her husband, with all her heart.) So this makes me wonder what else was going on.
This is just so heartbreaking, all the more so because there are no simple answers.
Sure, it looks to me like CW is guilty as sin for all the murders. And yet, he looks to be doing his best to be a good husband and dad in many of the videos. (Certainly not the porch LE interviews, though. He looks like he’s trying to look calm, but his voice is shaking, he’s gulping & his breathing is unsteady.)
This is just a heartbreaker of a case.
Sorry so long!