Found Deceased CO - Shanann Watts (34), Celeste"Cece" (3) and Bella (4), Frederick, 13 Aug 2018 *Arrest* #36

[MerryB]

As long as the words of a VI aren’t given more weight than the facts, I take no issue with who someone wants to believe.

I <<heart>> facts.

 

[NuttMegg]

I didn't get the idea it was "potentially salacious" at all
Maybe it was just something that was personal and might cause speculation or judgement. Jmo

I thought it meant it was a silly reason or maybe time consuming rigamarole, I never got the idea that the reason for changing schools for Bella was "potentially salacious". But then I also don't think we have had any hint of Shan'nan having character problems or potential psychological problems

 

[MsBetsy]

OK. I think it comes down to the fact that some people are going to believe what they want to believe. No matter what is posted, they are going to interpret, favor, and recall information in a way that confirms their preexisting hypotheses or theories. JMO

I would not call that a fair statement. What is wrong with being supportive of a friend? Why is it so hard to believe that there's a VI that is better friends with CW? I believe the others have not hidden the fact that they were friends with SW. I really don't understand the defensiveness.

 

[Deleted member 230544]

thanks guys
appreciate the clarification.

but still my point remains the unsubstantiated posts that create confusion and innuendo by VIs

ie the trust me you don't want me to answer this statement.

its not really a fair post to make imo
and ill be judged for passing judgement on an unreasonable statement.

Agreed K-mac

 

[Best of What's Around]

@Trinket78 was the one who said she found out about the AP when everyone else did (“at the start” was initially perceived to mean at the start of the affair, which she later clarified).

@Colorado303 is the one who hinted at a potentially salacious reason Bella was changing schools.

Hope this helps! MOO

Respectfully, I do not believe Colorado303 stated that it was any reason related to something sexual, which is what salacious suggests.

 

[Deleted member 182072]

I know SW has been criticized for overspending but looking through her FB and Instagram I really don't think that was the case. Yes she got her nails done but she colored her own hair and had her hair cut by a friend. She made healthy meals at home and posted many of her favorite recipes. She only ate at nice restaurants on their Le-Vel paid for trips. Her clothes and furniture didn't look expensive either, IMO. She didn't have a maid and did her own housework.

They didn't spend much on entertainment as far as I can tell. The only trips besides NC to see family were work trips or all inclusive vacations she had earned. I just saw one post about a trip to the movie theater.

She worked very hard and earned good money selling Thrive products. It was CW who was wasting so much time and money on his affairs instead of working hard for his family. JMO

 

[Deleted member 230544]

MsBetsy said: ↑
I didn't get the idea it was "potentially salacious" at all
Maybe it was just something that was personal and might cause speculation or judgement. Jmo

I have no idea! I did not make the statement. I don't know why you would even ask! I don't see how anyone could know that...

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MsBetsy you posted that you didn't think it was "potentially salacious" and may be something personal and might cause speculation or judgement. I was simply responding to your post saying why would the poster even make such a post in the first place. Don't understand why you would query why I would ask you a question about your post.

 

[NuttMegg]

MsBetsy ~ If it was personal and might cause speculation or judgement then why post the comment in the first place without offering an explanation? Discretion would be key.

Here is the origin of the use of the word "salacious" in regards to Bella changing schools. The VI did not use that word, IIRC. Found Deceased - CO - Shanann Watts (34), Celeste"Cece" (3) and Bella (4), Frederick, 13 Aug 2018 *Arrest* #36

 

[Deleted member 230544]

Here is the origin of the use of the word "salacious" in regards to Bella changing schools. The VI did not use that word, IIRC. Found Deceased - CO - Shanann Watts (34), Celeste"Cece" (3) and Bella (4), Frederick, 13 Aug 2018 *Arrest* #36

I did not use the word "salacious" in any of my posts ~ I merely copy and pasted the post. NuttMegg.

 

[bonjoviblonde]

Respectfully, I do not believe Colorado303 stated that it was any reason related to something sexual, which is what salacious suggests.

I wondered why the word salacious was used but I wasn't going to touch that one.

 

[Best of What's Around]

MsBetsy said: ↑
I didn't get the idea it was "potentially salacious" at all
Maybe it was just something that was personal and might cause speculation or judgement. Jmo

MsBetsy you posted that you didn't think it was "potentially salacious" and may be something personal and might cause speculation or judgement. I was simply responding to your post saying why would the poster even make such a post in the first place. Don't understand why you would query why I would ask you a question about your post.

VIs have the right to answer other people's questions or not. Colorado303 has been very helpful on a large number of questions by people. She chose not to answer that one. I think it might be in bad form, IMO, for us to begrudge her of this option.

 

[NuttMegg]

I did not use the word "salacious" in any of my posts NuttMegg.

I didn't say you did, Bluff. I quoted the post that first used that word on this thread in relation to Bella changing schools. IIRC the VI did not use that word "salacious" either.

 

[MsBetsy]

I thought it meant it was a silly reason or maybe time consuming rigamarole, I never got the idea that the reason for changing schools for Bella was potentially salacious. But then I also don't think we have had any hint of Shan'nan having character problems or potential psychological problems

Maybe she was planning for the separation or divorce and thought it was more affordable and the poster didn't want reveal that she was planning on leaving for some reason. It probably is not as big a deal as we are making it, and the fact that it is being quoted so many times is just making it seem so. It also is distracting so thats all I'm going to say since we don't have any way of knowing the reason...

 

[Deleted member 230544]

I didn't say you did, Bluff. I quoted the post that first used that word on this thread in relation to Bella changing schools. IIRC the VI did not use that word "salacious" either.

Correct NuttMegg ~ I did not use the word salacious and neither did the VI.
The VI stated:
Trust me, you really don’t want me to answer this.
Colorado303, Saturday at 5:22 PM

 

[NuttMegg]

I did not use the word "salacious" in any of my posts ~ I merely copy and pasted the post. NuttMegg.

Bluff, no one said you did from what I can see, I sure did not. Someone originated that accusation and the rest of us were knocking it down, because we interpreted the words of the VI differently.

 

[Layla123]

I thought it meant it was a silly reason or maybe time consuming rigamarole, I never got the idea that the reason for changing schools for Bella was potentially salacious. But then I also don't think we have had any hint of Shan'nan having character problems or potential psychological problems

Can you please explain the issue with Bella changing schools? My children both went to private preschools, then when they started Kindergarten they went to public school. Why is it more complicated than that?

 

[tmar]

I read that crude oil has the capacity to gradually decompose tissue and bone over time. It could be possible that if he had known this then he may have felt that them being in separate tanks would have made this process more expedient. Just a thought.

As CW works with oil, he may have known that oil decomposes tissue and bone over time, if your statement is correct.
That is perhaps the reason, girls are in the tanks and separate tanks, for faster decomposition..
Similarly, he later, may have placed SW into a tank, for this reason: the shallow grave being temporary, due to time available.
NUA stopped any further activity in moving SW's body.
MOO.

 

[WildWest]

I agree. Chase Bank always seems more than willing to loan you money for the equity in your home. The HOA problem is a sign the finances were out of control. Unfortunately, those MLMs require too much investment on the part of the seller. People get in over their heads before they realize their business has tied up all their cash flow.

I disagree. I know two neighbors in an older neighborhood just NW of the Watt's that have joined a neighborhood wide protest against that HOA, and both those two are doing well financially. This does not indicate anything, unless you can prove otherwise.

 

[NuttMegg]

Can you please explain the issue with Bella changing schools? My children both went to private preschools, then when they started Kindergarten they went to public school. Why is it more complicated than that?

Layla, with respect, you are asking the wrong person. Found Deceased - CO - Shanann Watts (34), Celeste"Cece" (3) and Bella (4), Frederick, 13 Aug 2018 *Arrest* #36

 

[cailleach]

Hi WS Peeps! I note the autopsies are in and have been shared as discovery. I also note that there's no change in the charges.

 

[Shekkiec]

Can you please explain the issue with Bella changing schools? My children both went to private preschools, then when they started Kindergarten they went to public school. Why is it more complicated than that?

It was as to where finances may be a stress factor or possible marital separation had been discussed towards that descion imo