My background is in Psychology, Child Development, Special Education, and regular Ed. , and "baffled" is the same word I would use to describe it. I just can't understand. I worked with preschool age kids for many years, who had a variety of health issues, as they were Early Intervention students. Water play was the most looked forward to part of the day for the kids during summer school. I think I mentioned before, one summer the sprinkler broke and we used a hose to spray the kids. Obviously approved by administration, as the rules are very strict. The kids were so disappointed when the sprinkler broke that we wanted to come up with some way they could still have their "water play."
Someone mentioned that at least it wasn't a hose Shanann used. A squirt bottle is harmless, in my opinion. We had many kids ask to sprayed on their head, in their mouth, and everywhere. We never had a parent complain, in fact they had to give permission and none refused. It never occurred to me that spraying those kids could be considered hostile or abusive. I just don't see it. Jmo