Yet in the meantime her life is ruined because people are judging and blaming her. She probably can't walk down the street without getting recognised and verbally abused. It's not her fault he killed them, but she's the one who has to suffer all that hate and spite. For what? Having an affair with a married man? Happens all the time.
I think my greatest fear is if people succeed in destroying NK, LE is going to have a hard time getting witnesses to come forward in the future. NK is not responsible for these murders. She had a very sexy, romantic, exciting, sordid affair with a lyingmarried man. She loved every minute of it. He murdered his family, and all of a sudden the most embarrassing and personal details of her private life have been released to the public for all to judge, blame, mock, and condemn. I can understand why she would want to protect herself and try to keep a lid on it. Did it really help the investigation for the world to learn NK googled anal sex? I can see NK going into a huge depression and possibly killing herself.
I agree with you and my thoughts keep turning to CW’s mom because there was clearly animosity between she and Shannan. IMHO she may have been the catalyst that caused him to kill his family. She sounds like one who is never happy and held Shannan to such a high standard that despite the gift of 3 grandchildren, she was never going to be “good enough”. She seemed to find fault with everything and any woman who would knowingly give a child with a peanut allergy nuts is outright crazy and irresponsible. She strikes me as the type who would have questioned the legitimacy of Shannann’s Lupus diagnosis too. You know the kind who refuse to accept the fact that you’re ill when you look perfectly healthy...kwim? She is the epitome of a toxic mother in law. May they all Rest In Peace!
This is off topic, but my ex’s father used to travel to Asia for business several times a year, and the trips would last for two weeks, usually. Ex’s mother joked that those trips were the reason they were still happily married! (They adored each other.)
How does that work though? He was showing a different side before the nut incident.
Yes, and it's on my list unless someone else uncovers the mystery.
Respectfully not feeling it, sorry. She repeatedly made poor/bordering on gray line criminal decisions.I think my greatest fear is if people succeed in destroying NK, LE is going to have a hard time getting witnesses to come forward in the future. NK is not responsible for these murders. She had a very sexy, romantic, exciting, sordid affair with a lying
He did keep repeating himself in every interview with media and LE. Over and over. "Bella is sweet and mothering, like me. Cece has two speeds...rampage or sleeping"
Of course she and the sister did question her Lupus diagnosis. And the little girl's asthma diagnosis and the nut allergy.
Who is trying to destroy her? I've never blamed her for the murders; that's all on CW. I simply have a different impression of her than I did before the discovery was released. I agree that there was a lot of personal information that should have been redacted (phone numbers, copies of identification, email addresses, home addresses for many of the witnesses). That's not good. MOOI think my greatest fear is if people succeed in destroying NK, LE is going to have a hard time getting witnesses to come forward in the future. NK is not responsible for these murders. She had a very sexy, romantic, exciting, sordid affair with a lying
My brother was a marine engineer and used to do 6 weeks at sea and 6 weeks at home. My SIL used to say that she loved having him home, but by the time the 6 weeks were up, they were both pleased that he was going again.
A WILLING victim? You are free to sympathize with NK. That isn’t a crime but let’s be clear that adultery in never okay. You cannot blur the lines.Thanks for putting all this together, I truly appreciate the time you’ve spent to do it, but I still can’t bring myself to view NK in black and white terms, I see so much gray area in there. I’ve been a witness before, and it’s hard. I didn’t remember everything all at once, either, or speak out everything that I remembered when it came to my mind along with a lot of other thoughts. So many things pop into your head all at once, you go off on tangents, it’s hard to do. NK did go back several times to tell them everything she could remember. I don’t think she intended to deceive them. When she walked in there she hated CW and never wanted to see him again. I don’t see why she would lie. For example, I think it’s possible to do both, have sex with a guy and tell him to work on his marriage. I think CW gave her so many mixed messages, I can see her being very confused and unsure about everything. She did tell her friend it was the best sex she ever had, and when that happens to you, that can really mess up your mind. And I’m not defending the adultery, but I have to admit that I have 3 brother in laws who are happily married to women they committed adultery with in their first marriages. I know it is a mess, and a drama for everyone around them, but years later, when it’s all said and done, they’re probably all a lot happier than they were in their first marriages. I can’t hate everyone who commits adultery.
I can understand how nervous and scared NK must have been the first time she was interviewed by the cops. I don’t believe she intended to mislead or lie to them. She had to have been horrified. She may have forgotten, or it maybe it all didn’t come to her mind at the time. She did go back and tell them more. As for her google searches, overnight, instantly, she did become like Amber Frye. That had to have been shocking to realize. She googled her train of thoughts as she was figuring the whole mess out. I do that all the time as thoughts come to my head. I love google. It doesn’t mean she’s going to write a book and make a lot of money. Everything CW told her was a lie, and from the looks of things it would mostly be a
CW’s mom is a narcissist and that daughter of hers is a chip off the block. They both indulged in bashing Shannan and share responsibility for this tragic mess. It’s called
Ok. I didn't see any neutral questions. Just the three. I know she took a lot of time explaining the questions and explained what they meant. But as far as I know there were three questions and they were all in regard to Shanann. She explained that one can assume that wherever Shanann is it's reasonable that the girls would be with her. I guess I'm confused because I saw no neutral questions and all three were thoroughly explained to him and he was told they would only be about Shanann.
If you are always truthful then it does not matter. If you involved in something that is wrong, then you take the risk of being exposed when LE comes knocking on your door. I was stunned at first at all of the information out there in the discovery, but it is all evidence and the public can get it one way or another. The letters people wrote to CW in jail.......they should realize there is no expectation of privacy when you write to a murderer or anyone incarcerated. And the people that lied and spoke out of both sides of their mouths? They deserve to be exposed. If you have nothing to hide, then there is nothing to worry about. IMO
A lot of people have said some pretty horrible things. When I put myself in her place, whew!
