SW had a more supportive family than did CW, and also more than NK apparently does. I think a lot of people and sites have overlooked that both CW and NK had planned for "him" to keep the kids for 8 days at a time with his new work schedule. They both mentioned that, (without bothering to tell the children's mother, of course) and that she was going to teach them to paint flowerpots

. 50-50 custody doesn't work like that with small kids. I can't imagine a schedule more disruptive. With a 3 year old, 8 days is a year or two. And NK, while bearing his new baby boy

was going to be vigilant of the 3 other step-children's health for 8 day stretches?
Oh I almost forgot. They weren't sure if they would be a couple and were going to take it slowly.