This may be immaterial but when Suzanne said they needed to divorce civilly, do you think she meant "politely" or "legally"? Struck me this morning because I always assumed the former -- handle it maturely, for the sake of everyone -- but perhaps Suzanne was trying to find a way still to accommodate Barry -- divorce civilly so he could stay married in "God's eyes" -- then once they got that far, she be able to move on physically --
Probably not significant either way -- but thought I'd raise the question.
I just can't imagine what she was going through, trying to extricate herself from the general toxicity/imbalance of the marriage --
She said she'd still do his invoices, IMO she was helping to find him a comeasurate house to move to (so they could divide up resources fairly)....
Yeah, he probably doesn't *do* fair.
JMO