Word. I would not listen to a SOUL if my child/mate were "missing". I would gladly offer myself up for 'sacrifice' and any/all public scrutiny. I don't know a single 'innocent' soul that would handle it differently. It would be all emotion, 24/7, and screaming from the rooftops, giving up all privacy to find my loved one.
The world would stop from the second of their disappearance. No real estate deals, not even if initiated before the 'disappearance'. I am befuddled, really, at how ANY semblance of business transactions, normal life, etc. could occur so close to a disappearance.
I cannot get past the following:
"Too soon..."
"Oh Suzanne..."
What? Nothing I could say would be "too soon" and "oh suzanne?!?" still SOOOO weird to me to start off like that. I CANNOT discount the tone of his voice in the "Oh Suzanne..." almost if placing blame on dear SM. IMO, as always. I have ZERO insight into this case, and can only comment from personal opinion.
Never 'too soon' to say, "I love you, I miss you, please come home", "give me my wife back", "i hate pumas", or whatever the sentiment may be...
This is what I aways try to explain. When people start lecturing on what our rights are and the “smart” thing to do (I.e. get a lawyer, don’t take a lie detector test and make no public statements), that is NOT what innocent people do, in this kind of situation (except maybe .01% when it comes to not making public statements).