I'm guessing, in prison. Moogreat post, and I totally agree.
And since it appears BM has gone off the deep end whether through drugs or alcohol or poor
character or judgement, it makes me wonder how many other times SM rescued him from himself over the years?
As I've mentioned before, so many times I've observed the "good wife" who kept the bad boy husband on the straight and narrow. She became the wise mother over her errant son.
Then he offs the goose that laid the golden egg.
Where would BM be today, had he not had SM
to monitor and steer his behavior all these years?