100% agree. Last year, when my little sister was killed, I was going nonstop for a week. Everything was thrown on me to handle because my mother could not function, plus dealing with the tragedy with her young boys. I would certainly hate for someone to judge me on my appearance that week.
I can’t fathom what her brother must be going through, and I definitely can not judge him on his appearance. What I can say about him is that I think he’s a brave soul that has taken on a monumental task of trying to find his sister.
JMO.
So sorry, to hear about your sister, Gigi.



As you found, we can achieve a great deal, during such times, due to adrenaline helping us.
Similarly with AM, he worked so hard during the search as so important.
Now, he waits for LE.
Perhaps with loads of evidence collected over time, a case may be forming for an arrest.