At first when Ohio's Governor ended the stay-at-home order and went to the "safer at home" order, I feel angry, bitter, and resentful. At high risk due to age and a high risk medical condition, it didn't seem fair that I might have to go back to work in the office, rather than remotely, as I am now doing.
But over time, I have come to see that I need to be proactive in figuring out how to keep our family safe as the reopening continues. I can't retire yet either, but I am following ADA acccommodation regulations, FMLA options, and tracking legislation proposed in the state legislature regarding options for high risk individuals who may want to continue to self-isolate. Many threads ago, I posted a message about the importance of public policy and working with state legislators and our U.S. senators and congress members, as we are their constituents, also.
Buying time is good, and if we can make it one more month and see where we are in early July - each month we will have more information and results regarding therapeutics, vaccine development progress, hospital capacity, etc.
In the worse case scenario, selling one's house and downsizing, and other such decisions might be necessary, so it is good to think about these things as a last resort, just in case. No one in their 60s or 70s wanted to spend their later years in this kind of situation, but it is what it is. I have some really great neighbors who are young families, and for them life is going on without much change. They aren't covidiots, they are decent people who have to raise their family and pay their mortgage, and also care for extended family members such as parents and grandparents. Everybody needs to make their own personal plan. The state should provide a safety net where it can, and people should lobby for assistance for their needs as a group, and the AARP is one organization that tries to do so. This is a difficult time, and may require drastic choices and actions, but every one has to make their own plan and face the reality of their situation. It has taken me several months to do so, but I try to focus on the options that I have and to generate more. JMO.