The dichotomy of this case is SO striking, it almost takes your breath away.
Revelations regarding Relisha's family situation continues to boggle the collective mind. A bright 8-year old girl, who was kept at home for an extended period of time, while her mother (by definition, it seems) enlisted the help of kt to facilitate that absence.
The obvious question is, Why? What possible explanation could there be for a parent of several young children to keep the eldest home from school, and deceive the school with the help of her now-kidnapper to do so?
Even worse, why in the world would you refuse to proceed with the necessary arrangements to facilitate an Amber Alert? There is no reasonable explanation I can think of for DCFS to have to intervene, in order to take custody away, to save one child, while the clock is ticking. Statistically, we here at WS know that those first few hours are crucial. By the time the proper authorities became aware, Relisha was far past that critical point, yet SY continued to stonewall. Then, she complained when she lost custody of all of her children. It is literally mind-blowing.
On the flipside, we see Social Services/ DCFS, and the FBI responding with the level of concern I think any parent would appreciate. Granted, not all agencies' responses have been perfect (the inter-agency snafu with the AA between PG County and the nearby states, being one), however, the FBI's decision to place kt on the Most Wanted List has bypassed all of that now.
This is an example of the proper response to a missing child, despite a fair amount of time passing since she was last seen, despite the fact that all of the facts surrounding the exact time of her disappearance not being concrete, despite the fact that her mother has not made the best decisions leading up to her being allowed to leave with her kidnapper (and now a known murderer) - my point is that Relisha's case has united us - regardless of socioeconomic level, culture, or belief system.
We are united in our quest to find a precious child, and fight for her (and her siblings) to grow up, healthy and happy. They may have spent the first part of their formative years in the shadows, their cries unheard, but those days are OVER.

raying: for the happy news that Relisha is found safe, and dreaming of her hugging her siblings. I need something to hold onto, right now.
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Sorry for the long post.... :blushing: