GREAT first post PrivateEye006! I have snipped and bolded portions of your post to comment on.
He looks VERY shady....either looking for someone, watching someone or waiting for something...
He is not RSL - nor does he seem to resemble any of the folks on his FB page...
IMO, he seems very aware of the camera, as he appears to look directly at it. It strikes me as though he seems nervous at this point, perhaps because of the camera and maybe he now realizes this probably might not have been the best place to be meeting, or whatever was taking place at this location.
I have said from DAY 1 - that the reason his wife was murdered was either because she found out what he was doing or she threatned to tell what she knew once the girl went missing.
However, as time has gone on...and the more I have researched and read...I am starting to think that he didn't kill himself - and maybe didn't kill her (AT) either...
WHY would a man, his wife and two or three other men, check into a hotel not far from their home together...then everyone leave (other than KT and AKT) an hour later??? Why would RSL return in the morning to pick him up??? he had not only his car, but hers too....there was a meeting and they ALL had an agenda.
I totally agree. I am not 100% convinced that his death was a suicide either. I have also considered the possibility that he didn't kill his wife, but I have problems with that theory. Simply because no matter how much I go over the scenarios that I have, I can only get one to make sense. And that is with him being the one that killed her.
--IF one of the three that checked in on 3/19 with Tatum and his wife did in fact kill her, we know that those three left by 11:30. That would mean that Tatum remained, with his dead wife's body, for another 6-6 1/2 hours in that room. Why?? Was he upset? Needed time to spend with her to say goodbye? Maybe. But he filed for divorce from her on 2/7 so I have a hard time buying that. However, I do think that is a possibility.
--That leads me to believe that she was killed AFTER those three left. This makes sense because we know that he was the only one with her at that time, as LE has said nobody else came to that room until 5:40am, and nobody used a key card to enter that room after they all checked in until LE entered on the morning of 3/20. Therefore he HAD to have killed her according to this theory.
--But, revisiting the other possibility. Let's say he did not kill her. One of the other three killed her. Tatum was distraught. Yes, he filed for divorce, but he certainly didn't want things to end THIS way. So he stayed with her, he may have cried, held her. Again... WHY? I would be thinking, and probably most others in this situation as well, "OMG, they just killed her right here in front of me. I am not safe. I need to get out of here." But he didn't flee with, or shortly after the others. He stayed. For another 6 hours at least.
--Let's say that whoever killed him did in fact kill his wife. Why didn't they just also kill him at the same time? It makes no sense.
So that's where I'm at. Things always lead me back to him being responsible for her death. I am NOT convinced that he killed himself. But, I think I am, at least at this point, convinced that he DID kill her. I just can't make things add up any other way. And speaking of things not adding up... one thing that still has me puzzled is WHY did he need to be picked up?? Like you mentioned, he had TWO vehicles that he could have used to leave that hotel. Why did he need a ride? My theory is maybe he didn't need a ride. Maybe he was told to "stay put" until someone comes back for you. JMO
I'd love to hear more of your theory on this though! Please elaborate more on what you are thinking.