About alcohol blackouts - they exist in a full "en block" form and also in "fragmentary" from, i.e., "brownouts".
en.m.wikipedia.org
I suspect that JR had a "brownout" with confabulations that are strangely typical for alcohol use.
IMO, there could be a religious aspect (some religions have a specific time in which they complete rituals after death, including ceremonies and/or burial/cremation). There could also be a social reason. They've already seen their daughter behaving socially in ways they probably did not expect to see her, there may be a parental shame element, and they might not want to have broadcast anything else she may have done that night.
These poor parents. Their daughter and they are criticized by the Indian community in India.
The other side: Ginnette Bournigal, a senator of Puerto Plata and the president of the
Senate Tourism Commission, blamed it all on "drinking and hookup culture". Which is not only horribly insensitive towards Sudiksha and her parents. It is irrational - sorry, but most travel to the DR for "all inclusives". You don't blame the tourists for being attracted to the touristy attractions.
Not only this, the parents are criticized by young Asians here in the US by being "strict Asian parents." Which we don't know either, i think they were loving parents who tried to do the best.
So I guess it falls on us all to say that we understand, and feel compassion and sympathy for Sudiksha's parents. They likely did the best they could. Sudiksha grew up in the US. She was planning to be a doctor. So, a smart girl. A beautiful girl, too.
I think that her parents are following the logic (and tbh, the chance of SK being alive is slim). And, they are following the rites that are important.
In my view, a 20-year-old girl who went for a vacation with a group of other girls. Given that there was a blackout in a hotel, is it surprising that they were overserved? Probably everyone went to a bar. Is it easy to overdrink at 20? For sure. We all have been there. The rest is understandable. Disinhibited by alcohol, flattered by attention of another student, going to the seashore with a group. Nothing wrong IMHO.
We don't quite know what happened there, but Sudiksha didn't hurt anyone, it is obvious. Just a tragic situation for a young woman. I suspect she trusted that huge guy JR who probably overestimated his "lifeguard" qualities. She made a mistake. Whether JR was a coward and doesn't want to acknowledge it, or he had an "alcoholic brownout" and doesn't remember, one of the two, I think.
Best of wishes to her parents.
To the Dominican Republic - to undo the insensitive words of your Senator Bournigal, try your best to find Sudiksha.