Exactly, that's my problem. But It's not fair to the people involved for my problem to reflect badly on them.
I'm trying to separate out behaviors by family members and behaviors by the actual principles.
Ron
Crystal
Misty
These are the three the children actual answered to, these are the "acting parental units". I would like to know what is going on with them personally as opposed to their other family members.
Next if Crystals fiance' Chad resides in the same home as the children when they visit.
Then the Gparents and aunts, uncles, various cousins and friends.
We know Ron is working full time, Misty said (somewhere here) that she hadn't gone to school in quite sometime, she had scheduled an appt for GED classes but she didn't show up.
Crystal has a new baby, she bought a home? according to a sworn statement by her dad. She lost her minimum wage job as a server. Has she found new employment? Is she current in her child support?
The lifestyles here are so foreign to most of us it's almost impossible to be fair and open minded about these children's living arrangements. Most of the immediate female friends and relatives are early 20's with 2-3 small children each. Most of the guys are a few years older than the "women" they are associated with, in marriage, children or just cohabitating. Which basically boils down to 16-17 y o females hooking up with 20-21 y o males and very quickly starting a family together.