After getting home from hospital, Julie resumed being the primary caregiver for the children. PS filled in from time to time with the kids. During this time, Julie was working at an art gallery.
They then were stationed in Germany, living on base in the designated home for the commander. Army had "Exceptional Family Member Program" (for health needs, special needs, disabilities, etc.) -- each time a family was re-stationed, the Army would review whether the new placement was appropriate for that family member.
Julie had ups and downs in energy. While in Germany, JS was not working outside the home, but was working with the crafting and was coaching the community volleyball team. PS's Mom did not follow them to Germany. They had no family nearby. PS was not traveling much during this time period. Later, when they were in Germany, he began to travel for 2 to 3 weeks at a time. They also traveled a lot together as a family for fun, and Julie traveled on her own.