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I feel like every time something like this happens we get a comment from DCF promising an internal review etc. It's no secret how understaffed they are - so many well meaning people go in hoping to change and/or save lives and come out cynical, having been stretched too thin to be effective.
I bet if some banks were willing to take a slight hit, a loan forgiveness program would bring in a LOT of young (temporary) staff, kind of Teach for America/Peace Corps style. When I was in my early 20's with an overwhelming amount of student debt and no set career path yet, I definitely would have considered the temporary placement if it were an option. People to check on newborns and their home environments, to look into why a "homeschooled" student hasn't been seen in years..
As it stands now DCF does not have the resources to truly verify if someone who's had their children taken away 7 times is living with the mother of yet another child. It's too easy for someone like that to give someone else's residence as a permanent address - that of a brother or friend, maybe. And that's even if it got far enough down the chain that it needed to be uźverified!
To be fair, I assume the egg donor here must have gotten herself clean while pregnant, otherwise she wouldn't have been allowed to go home with the baby, right? So a lot of the human error here is friends and family of theirs who knew about the historical drug addiction and didn't have the sense or ability to report it. I would phone that tip in so hard if it involved a Facebook acquaintance from high school, much less FAMILY.
As a sidenote, I'm going to overnight thata box full of angry hornets if it comes out she's claiming to have been a battered woman, too scared to defy her Awesome Man.
No, mom did drugs through out her prenancy, and afterwards. She probably did drugs with Duane too.
I fully expect a sleezy lawyer to claim his clients are good people, but it was the drugs that changed them., so don't be so harsh in judging them. I will scream if Baez, Cheney show up or comment about Chance or them.
Has any of the other mothers come forward and said why seven children were taken away from JW? I fully expect some to get their 15 minutes on Nancy Grace etc.
I keep gloves around to use when I'm cutting up chicken and meat, to bath our dogs in the skunk recipe when they get sprayed, to use for first aid, and to spray insecticides and things. Someone said last thead that drug users use the gloves to make their veins pop up to shoot up.
I have no idea why JW would of taken Chance out of the garbage bags to bury him unless they thought it would lead back to them somehow . Has anyone said who's blood was on the bed sheets , walls, and light switch?