I've reread your post with a fresh set of eyes, and I hope this helps clarify my thoughts—sometimes, written communication doesn't convey points as intended. I'm not suggesting that everyone who is convinced Wendi was directly involved in Dan's murder is wrong, or that their judgment is clouded solely by Wendi’s established bad character. I realize my earlier words may have come across that way, which is why I emphasized that I wasn’t trying to be arrogant.
To restate my position more clearly, I personally aim to analyze this case as impartially as possible—almost like AI, removing emotional bias when evaluating the case / evidence. From what I’ve personally observed, I believe many people struggle with this, especially when it comes to Wendi. She very easy to dislike for many reasons, and it’s my personal belief that many (though not all) who follow this case find it very difficult to objectively assess certain facts or data, simply because of their strong disdain for Wendi. My opinion comes from years of engaging with multiple people across various platforms discussing this case. I don’t know how long you’ve been following the case, but I believe this perspective is well-founded—again, it’s just my personal opinion.
I understand that some may interpret my stance as advocating for Wendi or question my motives. Incidents like Wendi’s new claim that she was told about the shooting in the car are easily disproven by anyone familiar with the facts; the record shows she was first informed at the police station. Why would she intentionally claim otherwise? Wendi is clearly intelligent enough to know that her statement conflicts with established facts. My best explanation is that she cracked under pressure, likely misspoke, and wasn’t given the chance to correct herself—so the new claim stands. This resembles her history of varying and inconsistent statements, such as regarding the turn on Trescott. In my opinion, Cappleman should have immediately asked a follow-up about this "new" claim but chose not to, either because she new it was a bad look for Wendi or Cappleman simply missed the moment.
To be clear, I fully acknowledge that Wendi made a clear decision to lie, starting from the first trial, and I also recognize she may have been directly involved. Where I believe my perspective differs from yours and most others is that I also think it’s possible she wasn’t directly involved—but is nevertheless lying about everything she knows. Once someone starts lying, it's hard to keep their story straight. As I said in my previous post, lying does not necessarily mean direct involvement. I am 100% convinced she lied throughout all four trials, but not convinced she was directly involved. My position is 50/50 on her direct involvement, but 100% convinced she lied about her knowledge of events in all previous trials.