The suspect is a man, and an average height to 5'11" man at that. The police are wildly wrong in their height description, and the closeups I did show it to be a man.
The coloring is not accurate, and some think his hair is light colored, not black. The picture of the perp you posted is gray, so I wouldn't rule that out.
The face is roughly that of the face in my blowup of photo three, but the suspect in Jennifer's case had no mustache, probably a chin strap instead of a goatee, but don't know, and his hair was neatly trimmed in the back.
I personally think the Jesse suspect is much younger than 54, but considering that we have to be subjective about hair color, there is nothing about the picture you posted that rules him out. I didn't see anything else posted that suggested why you said wife other than the official height estimate.
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