Originally Posted by SapphireSteel
Firstly, she was raped, she was 14 which is below the age of consent. Whoever raped her had access to her. My 14 year old was never left alone with anyone long enough to even be kissed, so that's neglect right there by my standards. That's YOUR 14 year old, which unfortunately, isn't the norm anymore.
(snipped)
God only knows if she could access a free abortion or even counseling, but I doubt it.
I will almost guarantee she has come from an abusive background herself which is probably why she felt she could trust nobody. She could well have been unbalanced at the time and thinking she was doing her baby a favour. It seems unfathomable but it happens.
(snipped)
First, we have no way of knowing (at this time) if she was raped or not. The father of the child very well could be someone of her age. Then they are both in the wrong. Too many kids are experimenting in things that are age inappropriate. I'm sure others will disagree, but 14 years old is much too young to be sharing herself sexually.
Abortion?? I'll spare you my feelings on abortion as birth control, but there are far more options than abortion. I'd much rather know that I gave my child a chance at life (adoption) than murdering him. Having worked at an adoption agency, and being an adoptive mom, I have seen so many young girls make this decision.
How can you guarantee you should most likely came from an abusive background? Because she chose this as the only out? I came from an abusive background and murdering my baby would be the furtherest thing from my mind - even at 14. We'll have to agree to disagree on how anyone could ever see this as doing the baby a favor? My son's mother placed him for adoption to give him a better life - one she knew she couldn't provide him.
This 14 year old child has been failed on so many different levels yet the general public is screaming for vengeance and suggesting she should be killed in horrifying ways. Why isn't her mother being held accountable? Is she not responsible for a 14 year old?
2) Two separate pregnancy tests were given to her, in private, and both came out "no response" which the mother took to mean "not pregnant". Every test I looked at says something, yes/no, pregnant/not pregnant, two lines or only one line....not simply blank.
3) She had 4-5 vaginal lesions when her mother took her to the doctor after she told her mother she had a miscarriage and flushed it down the toilet. How could any medical professional or a woman who had given birth believe that a child small enough to flush down the toilet would cause 4-5 vaginal lesions?
4) Comments I've read have said a sister got pregnant and was kicked out of the home. CG stated the reason she did this was because she didn't want her relationship with her mother and family to change. Doesn't sound to me like there would have been much support there if she had come clean to her mother.
5) A 5'3" 100# 14 year old girl delivers a 9.5 lb baby all alone, with no assistance. That would be a terrifying and extremely painful experience for a grown woman. How could that possibly go down in a single wide trailer and the mother, who was there at the time, not hear anything??? She was supposed to be sick that day. Wouldn't you check on your child if she had been in the bathroom for two hours?
6) She didn't simply throw the baby away. She washed it and kept it in her room. It wasn't just tossed into the trash as you frequently read about.
(snipped)
yet this 14 year old was not splashed all over the web with her mug shot, full name, address and date of birth displayed for all the world to see.
(snipped)
What she did was horrifying and inexcusable but this child made a mistake and then compounded it with interest. Is ruining the rest of her life going to bring back that baby boy? Is this how you would want your child to be treated if she did the same thing? She isn't the first and will not be the last...
(snipped link)
I'm one that feels she should be tried as an adult; however, I do not believe I could support a murder 1 charge (LWOP or Death). Her mother certainly bares some responsibility, IMHO. She is responsible for her daughter, but who knows where this girl had sex. It could have been at school, in the bathroom, under the bleachers...you never know. So, until I know more, I will reserve judgment on the mom's possible '
neglectful' behavior. The mom trusted her daughter. My mom would have trusted me at 14 as well.
I do agree with you on the medical professional though. There's no way a young girl that had damage just had a small enough baby that it would have flushed down the toilet. They had to have some concerns and if they didn't, I'd question why. She could have had a towel in her mouth (as a gag) to mute the sounds. I can't imagine giving birth and even considering using scissors to pry it out (that makes me sick to think about).

uke:
At the end of the day: Whether she washed him and put him in a box or threw him out...she still killed him. That's the bottom line. Not only was he injured from the scissors, she checked to see if he was still breathing AND THEN CHOKED THE LIFE OUT OF A NEWBORN HELPLESS BABY BOY.
Sadly, your last line is correct. Very unfortunate!
BBM1: You have no idea how she got pregnant. It may have been a boyfriend of the same age. (I doubt it, but until details come out, we don't know.)
BBM2: This isn't about "two wrongs making a right". It's about keeping a sociopath off the streets. ( you know, PROTECTING THE PUBLIC?) If she is released at 21 y/o, with a sealed juvie record, would you let her babysit your kids?
How many people come from $hi+y backgrounds turn out to be child killers? (hint: very few of 'em)
Anxiously awaiting your response.
BBM: A GREAT QUESTION! (Not yelling, CAPS are just for emphasis.)
The father of the baby committed a second degree felony, regardless of how old he is.
https://www.santarosa.k12.fl.us/files/ktlaw.pdf
Page 15 of the .pdf file. This also has the breakdown for 16-17 yos.
As did she, if he is her age.