FL FL - Michelle Parker, 33, Orlando, 17 Nov 2011 - #19

[telemag]

IMO Dale or an accomplice texted "waterford" solely to buy time as they knew people would be looking for Michelle once she did not show up to help get her older son "A" off of the bus...

What accomplise? Do you now think that Dale involved someone else with her murder? This def would not be a crime of passion but more like a "hit"?

 

[What'sThatClue]

If I didn't want to get pregnant there are steps I would take to make sure that doesn't happen. I was in fact a single mother and while I cursed my ex because he is the true definition of deadbeat I also had to take responsibility!! It is my body and I make the decision whether to use contraception and whether or not to keep the child.

Well, sometimes contraception fails.
JMO, if it takes two then both parties are responsible.

 

[What'sThatClue]

What accomplise? Do you now think that Dale involved someone else with her murder? This def would not be a crime of passion but more like a "hit"?

Anything is possible. MOO

 

[Jazzmaster]

Jazz unless it's rape it takes two. That is IMO an unfair comment to the men on this site.

What's unfair? That many men aren't paying support or helping raise their kids (more than just financially)? What I think is unfair is the children who grow up in single family homes. Go to any prison in America and you will find MOST prisoners come from homes that had NO FATHER. IMO hopefully Dale will be heading to one of those prisons soon and VERY soon...

 

[telemag]

Anything is possible. MOO

I get ya, but actually very little is possible. This had to be done in a specific way with very little leeway.

 

[hon3yb33]

IMO Dale or an accomplice texted "waterford" solely to buy time as they knew people would be looking for Michelle once she did not show up to help get her older son "A" off of the bus...

IMO if I were an accomplice trying to buy time I'd try to be as much like the person as possible so then I would text like the victim did so I could not be detected and have more time. Wouldn't that have been the point? Also I would think not texting back right away rather than texting back something that was "off character" would be better.

As far as Michelle being home in time to get A off the bus if she dropped of the twins at 3:18 then it wouldn't have been possible seeing as he got home at 3:30ish IIRC. That would have given her 10 minutes to get home and considering the distance between Dale's and her moms that would have been impossible. IMO I don't think she was rushing off to get A I feel like from what I read A had a routine because his mom was often not home to get him from the bus.

 

[telemag]

What's unfair? That many men aren't paying support or helping raise their kids (more than just financially)? What I think is unfair is the children who grow up in single family homes. Go to any prison in America and you will find MOST prisoners come from homes that had NO FATHER. IMO hopefully Dale will be heading to one of those prisons soon and VERY soon...

You said "I'm just tired of men sleeping around getting women pregnant". respectfully snipped. If a woman doesn't want to get pregnant then don't have sex PERIOD.

 

[What'sThatClue]

You said "I'm just tired of men sleeping around getting women pregnant". respectfully snipped. If a woman doesn't want to get pregnant then don't have sex PERIOD.

ROFL! On the other hand, if a guy doesn't want the responsibility, he should keep his pants zipped. MOO, lol.

 

[hon3yb33]

Well, sometimes contraception fails.
JMO, if it takes two then both parties are responsible.

I couldn't agree with you more that they should be responsible but other than a couple questionable missed child support payments what else is there to prove that Dale is a deadbeat dad?

Now before anyone jumps on me for saying questionable is we do not know what is behind those court ordered payments. We don't know how they came about. I know when I was just starting off as a young single mother I had to apply for food stamps and one of the requirements was that I had to go through the courts to get child support. That would be why it was court ordered. We don't know for sure. It very well could be that Dale was not paying or it could have been for a different reason.

 

[telemag]

ROFL! On the other hand, if a guy doesn't want the responsibility, he should keep his pants zipped. MOO, lol.

LOL well the only reason to unzip them would be if he had a reason, no reason, no unzipping going on. In other words if he has an invitation he's gonna go to the party.

 

[hon3yb33]

LOL well the only reason to unzip them would be if he had a reason, no reason, no unzipping going on. In other words if he has an invitation he's gonna go to the party.

LMAO.. typical man thought! :floorlaugh:

 

[Jazzmaster]

What accomplise? Do you now think that Dale involved someone else with her murder? This def would not be a crime of passion but more like a "hit"?

Dale could very easily have had an accomplice (knowingly or unknowingly). I believe it is VERY feasible. IMO Dale has many shady friends and I still question the circumstances around his second wife's death. His second wife's family believe Dale somehow was involved according to what I've read. His second wife happened to die around Dale's friends? Come on now!

As I recall, KC, like Dale, refused to answer LE questions. As I ALREADY mentioned JMO this COULD have been a heat of the moment, crime of passion involving an accidental death or murder. But I still believe he had a plan in the back of his mind (not sure how well planned or detailed, but I strongly believe he knew he was going to do this one day).

Dale already had two strikes against him. FL is a three strikes state, isn't it? Maybe he took something too far and knew he needed her quiet or he was going back to jail? Whether it was planned or unplanned, I believe once whatever happened took place, he needed some help (rides, moving vehicles, getting rid of evidence). I have extensive theories on how he COULD pull this off with and without accomplices. I will respectfully keep those private...

 

[hon3yb33]

We could go back and forth but it is the responsiblity of BOTH to take precautions if neither do not want a child. For all we know Michelle and/or Dale wanted to have a child. Little did they know that child would turn out to be beautiful twins!!

 

[telemag]

LMAO.. typical man thought! :floorlaugh:

Sadly yes. How many young guys (old too I guess) would pass on an invitation? I'm all for fairness. The child needs to be supported by both sides and should be the only concern, but more thought needs to go into how all this occurs in the first place. I have no answers to that issue.

 

[telemag]

We could go back and forth but it is the responsiblity of BOTH to take precautions if neither do not want a child. For all we know Michelle and/or Dale wanted to have a child. Little did they know that child would turn out to be beautiful twins!!

Absolutely and I don't see how either one of them could regret that.

 

[hon3yb33]

Dale could very easily have had an accomplice (knowingly or unknowingly). I believe it is VERY feasible. IMO Dale has many shady friends and I still question the circumstances around his second wife's death. His second wife's family believe Dale somehow was involved according to what I've read. His second wife happened to die around Dale's friends? Come on now!

As I recall, KC, like Dale, refused to answer LE questions. As I ALREADY mentioned JMO this COULD have been a heat of the moment, crime of passion involving an accidental death or murder. But I still believe he had a plan in the back of his mind (not sure how well planned or detailed, but I strongly believe he knew he was going to do this one day).

Dale already had two strikes against him. FL is a three strikes state, isn't it? Maybe he took something too far and knew he needed her quiet or he was going back to jail? Whether it was planned or unplanned, I believe once whatever happened took place, he needed some help (rides, moving vehicles, getting rid of evidence). I have extensive theories on how he COULD pull this off with and without accomplices. I will respectfully keep those private...

Shannon's death was due to drug use!! There was an investigation done by the police and it was ruled an accident! Dale was not involved in it so why is this still being brought up? Of course the family will not believe she was involved with drugs and want to blame Dale but she was and that is how she died!

 

[telemag]

So here we are 6 months later and no arrest, no word from LE that they have any proof for an arrest, no plausible theory as to how Dale commited the murder. Tons of speculation, but nothing that fits as to how all this was done. I wonder if we are still going to be her in another 6 months or a year debating?

 

[Jazzmaster]

You said "I'm just tired of men sleeping around getting women pregnant". respectfully snipped. If a woman doesn't want to get pregnant then don't have sex PERIOD.

I notice you respectfully snipped the WHOLE point of what makes me sick:
"men not taking responsibility". Yes it takes two to tango, but men who get women pregnant should have an equal responsibility to care for that child - physically, mentally, spiritually, and yes financially. JMO. I do not think Dale has proved himself to being a good dad. That is JMO. I hope he surprises me, steps up to the plate and becomes a REAL man. But if his track record is any indication of the future...those poor kids MOO.

 

[Jazzmaster]

Shannon's death was due to drug use!! There was an investigation done by the police and it was ruled an accident! Dale was not involved in it so why is this still being brought up? Of course the family will not believe she was involved with drugs and want to blame Dale but she was and that is how she died!

IMO the death was suspicious. From all that I have read and the fact that she died while around Dale's friends, with a drug Dale was arrested for using (i believe or was it meth?) and because he beat her, Dale could have blamed her for being dishonorably discharged from the Marines. JMO He had motive and friends to "erase that problem" too. MOO

 

[telemag]

I notice you respectfully snipped the WHOLE point of what makes me sick:
"men not taking responsibility". Yes it takes two to tango, but men who get women pregnant should have an equal responsibility to care for that child - physically, mentally, spiritually, and yes financially. JMO. I do not think Dale has proved himself to being a good dad. That is JMO. I hope he surprises me, steps up to the plate and becomes a REAL man. But if his track record is any indication of the future...those poor kids MOO.

Men don't get women pregnant. When a woman wants an abortion it's their body, but when they make a poor choice by not protecting "their" body it's somehow the guys fault. Can't have it both ways. Anyway, enuff with this. Let's shake hands and move on if that's OK.