I was trying not to be the buzz kill .... because everyone was saying it purely in a jovial manner...
But this actually true. "Cracker" can be a derogatory word. It can also, not be. I'm sure that doesn't make any sense. It technically IS a "bad" word - it's equivalent to the "n" word. It supposedly dates back to the slave times , and the term "cracker" refers to one who would crack a whip.
It's one of "those" words. Those words that if said in jest by people who love each other is "funny" . I have several friends of another race who sometimes use that word, and we all laugh...
...but it is true that it could be used in a negative manner. For instance....you see a person walking down the road....you do NOT was you say "hey cracker". LOL.
Again- I clearly see no one here meant it in a negative manner, just want to support her, because, yeah , it actually is a "bad" word.
...but it doesn't offend me to hear it in jest.