FL - Somer Thompson, 7, Orange Park, 19 Oct 2009 #16

[MommaD]

MommaD, do you only require a couple hours of sleep? Bless your heart - my eyes would be hamburger meat and my fingertips like pork ribs if I sleuthed as many hours as you. If I haven't said it b4, I'll say it now... thank you MommaD for your hard work & dedication. From my lips to God's ears - bless you:angel:

Oh chee. thank you, but yes I sleep some days to much.. I try I really try to not post . I am so scared I will get in trouble.. but It hurts to sit on my hands for a few days.. lol

I am just so involved like many others here.. right now I have 12 tabs open and can't get nothing done. lol I jump around to much... then I will leave puter to let dogs out or start something in the crock pot ...

my dh eats a lot of crock pot meals and left over crock pot meals.. lol

Bless everyone for trying to help all the missing ...

 

[MommaD]

I have been following all of this as a lurker. This is my first post and Im affraid I wont follow the rules. It seems alot of you have moved on. I thought we had him when WLK was arrested. This is still a possibility? I honestly dont understand about all the money that has been raised for the family. The money should go to the kids. DT is not as poor as she appears. Her live in makes good money according to his ms page. I realize she did not get child support from ST, but that is due to the long time it takes to get disability. ST was approved before Somer was murdered and she should have received all the back pay on all the kids by now. Also, I dont understand how two people who cared enough to make three children together cannot get along during a time like this. My ex and I are not close but I would never let the police give him this horrible news. I saw lil ST reach for his father. DT's live in snatched him away. I saw AT enter the church, sit across the isle from ST.. he said he loved her and held his arms open. AT looked terrified, and said I cant, mom told me not to. ST is a disabled veteran in a wheelchair. I too feel empathy for DT for this horrible loss. But I also think DT cares more about herself and hurting him than she does for the welfare of her children. THIS BEE MY OPINION ONLY. Meets a 28 yr old for lunch? In Jax from park st to op? IMO that is a quickie for lunch or to pick up something. He is still there waiting for kids 2 get home? Was he waiting for kids or for DT to get home and pay for whatever was picked up at lunch? he is not her bf. that is another man. and I have never heard why there is an RSO was on the police report. How many men who are not related to these children hang at that house? NO one imo would/should let a 10yrold walk two 7 yrs olds home from school. Everyone is acting like poor DT had no money to provide supervision for her kids. I call bs. Most of us have been there, yet we figured out ways to do it. Putting this responsibilty on AT will affect her the rest of her life, and she should have never had that responsibility to begin with. Lets get real.... a single woman who is trying to make a new relationship work, works daily and has friends of her bf, her bf, and othe rmen hanging at the house partying puts her children in terrible danger... odds of being molested increase with every stranger that is in their lives, especially if mom passes out from drugs and alcohol. I am not saying this is DT's lifestyle. DT stated on GMA yesterday that "she just hopes Somer knew she loved her". Maybe its just me. but I have never questioned if my children knew I loved them. Also, this is a nice house with a pool. The important thing now is finding this , and ST and AT. Who thinks the perp is WLK? Makes sense to me. But it also seems there was alot more going on in that house than we know.

So sadnpod are you a family member of sorts to anyone?? Sounds like you have close connections to say DT should of got back pay by now for ST... is this so???

 

[dannyodie]

O/T;;;

Missing Sumter Co. Girl Sought
Girl May Be Traveling With Man To Kissimmee

POSTED: 4:21 am EST November 10, 2009
UPDATED: 4:34 am EST November 10, 2009


http://www.wesh.com/news/21568780/detail.html




WILDWOOD, Fla. -- Authorities in Sumter County issued a missing child alert for a 9-year-old girl on Tuesday.

Nakhya Butler
Nakhya Butler

Investigators said Nakhya Butler, 9, disappeared on Sunday from Wildwood and may be traveling to Kissimmee in a black Chevrolet Cobalt.

Nakhya was described as 4 feet tall with black hair and brown eyes. Her hair has blonde streaks, and she has a birthmark on her right cheek.

She may be traveling with Nathan Butler, a 39-year-old black man, who is 6 feet tall, weighs 200 pounds, with black hair and brown eyes.

the girl was located on tuesday she is ok.....

 

[sadnpod]

There are several accounts set up, one for "the Thompson Family" which, by the way does not include ST. Who regulates where this money goes?

For those of you who do not know, a memorial for Somer is planned for sat, nov 14th, in graham, nc. Somer, ST, and AT also have family there that love them and are also deeply saddened and affected by her death. Her paternal grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins.... family and friends.

A single parent imo is someone sho had a child on their own and raise them alone. DT is a separated parent. not single. not divorced, with a live in bf. I heard her relative call ST a deadbeat dad in front of ST and AT. I have never heard ST say a foul word about DT. IT ALL SEEMS TO BE ABOUT MONEY!!!!!!!! Just because you move on in your love life and have a live in bf does not mean that they are now the dad. These kids wanted (i saw it) their dad. How could she deprive them of this comfort? Should he have to pay to comfort HIS children?

 

[gypsyblue]

can someone refresh me who or why we were looking for a real estate guy?? tyia

 

[amysmom]

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1. What was the cause of death?

smb

Supposedly not even dt knows cod..What's up with that? :waitasec:

 

[Boytwnmom]

CO2 Lowering. Many towns, including mine have a COOL committe to implement the town's committment to lowering emissions.

Good. Do they claim that it's a Green effort? Sounds more like an effort by the school district to save money by reducing the number of kids on the bus.

And it's really low, if it's a Green effort, to appeal to a small child's need to be "cool" rather than making a rational appeal to the parents themselves based on environmental impact. Educators shouldn't be telling kids that they need to do anything to be "cool" IMO. What kind of values are those?

 

[SharetheLight]

Kamille I agree with everything you just posted.
There needs to be support for a family in a time of crisis.
DT and Somer's siblings AND ST will need a lot of help to recover from this tragedy. There are some wonderful people who have donated the services needed to help this family move forward.
Hiring an entertainment lawyer will not help them move forward.
No one should profit from a child's death, no one.

All just my opinion and I realize this thread is filled with opposing opinions

 

[Cheewawa007]

can someone refresh me who or why we were looking for a real estate guy?? tyia

Beats the hell outta me gypsy... I can hardly keep up with all of the initials of the SOs - let alone new players being introduced. Sorry I can't be of more help.... MommaD, where are you?? Calling mommaD - gypsy has a question.

 

[sadnpod]

mommad:
I am not sure how to respond just to you. I am not blood related to ST, but we grew up together as second cousins. this is a small world. I have a house not far from ST in nc. But I live here in jax. My son and grandaughters are not far from DT's house. All coincidental. ST was at my house in nc the day Somer went missing. I was with him when he identified the birthmark on her leg. I attended the funeral here with him and I will return to nc for Somers service saturday. I am not taking any sides in this other than the side of lil ST and AT. I am just tired of everyone acting like DT did everything right. IT is the parents responsibility to get their children home from school safely. IF they had been supervised, this would not have happened. ALL Sex offenders, predators, should have a gps chip inserted in their body and a gps system dedicated to them only, if life in prison or death are not options. Then we would know where they are at all times. We do it for dogs.....

 

[MommaD]

Beats the hell outta me gypsy... I can hardly keep up with all of the initials of the SOs - let alone new players being introduced. Sorry I can't be of more help.... MommaD, where are you?? Calling mommaD - gypsy has a question.

I am thinking. takes awhile to get this brain kicked in.. :croc: :crazy:

 

[SharetheLight]

Welcome Sadnpod.
My sympathies go out to your family.

 

[MommaD]

mommad:
I am not sure how to respond just to you. I am not blood related to ST, but we grew up together as second cousins. this is a small world. I have a house not far from ST in nc. But I live here in jax. My son and grandaughters are not far from DT's house. All coincidental. ST was at my house in nc the day Somer went missing. I was with him when he identified the birthmark on her leg. I attended the funeral here with him and I will return to nc for Somers service saturday. I am not taking any sides in this other than the side of lil ST and AT. I am just tired of everyone acting like DT did everything right. IT is the parents responsibility to get their children home from school safely. IF they had been supervised, this would not have happened. ALL Sex offenders, predators, should have a gps chip inserted in their body and a gps system dedicated to them only, if life in prison or death are not options. Then we would know where they are at all times. We do it for dogs.....

This is true about RSO's and SO's .. they should be chipped..

I understand, I am sure you are considered blood family by most of them..

Good Luck to you and yours.. Bless everyone involved.. hope you stick around here at ws and post with us..

Thank you for answering my post..

 

[amysmom]

There are several accounts set up, one for "the Thompson Family" which, by the way does not include ST. Who regulates where this money goes?

For those of you who do not know, a memorial for Somer is planned for sat, nov 14th, in graham, nc. Somer, ST, and AT also have family there that love them and are also deeply saddened and affected by her death. Her paternal grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins.... family and friends.

A single parent imo is someone sho had a child on their own and raise them alone. DT is a separated parent. not single. not divorced, with a live in bf. I heard her relative call ST a deadbeat dad in front of ST and AT. I have never heard ST say a foul word about DT. IT ALL SEEMS TO BE ABOUT MONEY!!!!!!!! Just because you move on in your love life and have a live in bf does not mean that they are now the dad. These kids wanted (i saw it) their dad. How could she deprive them of this comfort? Should he have to pay to comfort HIS children?

Welcome sadnpod!

Were relatives on the ST side at funeral? I have a feeing you may know.

Parents should never bad-mouth the other..I hope DT is not really doing this to her kids.

 

[Snufamonbobball]

Since there isn't anything new to talk about I'm going to say it again- It is disturbing that LE hasn't come out and cleared the family.

LE has to know, the longer they say nothing the more the pressure is put on the family. People stop rallying around them, and start eyeballing them.

LE likes to keep their friends close, but their enemies closer. I can think of few child abduction/murder cases where the information has been so limited. They have literally said nothing. If this is a case of stranger abduction they are making a huge mistake by not clearing the family.

Anyhow, only my opinions here- and I hope justice will come soon for Somer.

 

[SharetheLight]

can someone refresh me who or why we were looking for a real estate guy?? tyia

The thinking was a real estate guy would have knowledge of foreclosed homes or other empty homes along the route, I think.

Ugh, too much to keep straight.

 

[sadnpod]

Who thinks the perp is WLK? does anyone know if he is still in jail?

 

[MommaD]

can someone refresh me who or why we were looking for a real estate guy?? tyia

sorry gypsy blue I just can't think why right now.. it was one of those things we got started on one thing and lead to thinking real estate .... I am sure someone will come on later and remember more...

again sorry..

 

[SharetheLight]

Who thinks the perp is WLK? does anyone know if he is still in jail?

He's still in jail. Someone posted yesterday that they think he has a court date today.

 

[amysmom]

Who thinks the perp is WLK? does anyone know if he is still in jail?

WLK fits for me & I think he is still in jail.