If my math is correct, given the above 4 yr affair with Ted, it was stated during trial MF started up with Rusty in 2014, so that would put supposedly 1st affair with Ted in 2010.
I think MF found out about Gary's affair with his assistant and that is what caused all of this behavior on her part. All the children testified that their childhood was normal, their parents' marriage was normal, etc. Up until some point when things broke and I just wonder what that point was? All I can guess is it was Gary's affair and she never forgave him and wanted to punish him and yes, even embarrass him in public. Two of the children stated their father loved Melody very much and did not put up with them talking her down around him.
It seems that Gary was a standup guy. Such a waste of a life.