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oh shoot, I messed up that post. but that was one of the bestest bestest Mrs. I ever saw. 

Well, the jury said he was NOT insane - InSession actually posted incorrectly on their facebook page " Hemy Neumann was found guilty but insane in the daycare murder trial" He was NOT found insane, he was found mentally ill. There is a difference IMHO. :waitasec: It was my understanding that if he was "insane" he would NOT be responsible....ergo the option of Not Guilty due to the reason of insanity verdict. Being mentally ill is different as I understand it. But I don't know the law in GA as to what the difference in the sentence would be of NGInsane vs. NGMI Can someone clarify / help me understand? TIA
oh shoot, I messed up that post. but that was one of the bestest bestest Mrs. I ever saw.![]()
Neuman will remain at the DeKalb Jail awaiting transfer to the Georgia Diagnostic and Classification Prison in Jackson, said defense attorney Bob Rubin.
Until then, any decision on whether Neuman will be placed under suicide watch would be made by William Brickhouse, the jail's mental health director who testified last week that he neither thought Neuman was bipolar nor took a previous suicide threat seriously.
I do not think that anyone feels that anybody won here -- everybody lost. I hadn't written this down but a lot of what Mr. Sneiderman said about Rusty is true. ...it is...
Just in case you aren't able to watch videos, the link below has a transcript of Rusty's brother Steven's statement to the court. There is an actual video of his statement, but also the transcript.
I feel so sorry for this family. They really loved Rusty. This was such an senseless crime.
fran
http://www.ajc.com/news/dunwoody-day-care-murder-1386554.html
Your Honor:
I am Steven Sneiderman, Rusty Sneiderman's brother. I am here today to speak on behalf of my parents, Marilyn and Donald Sneiderman, my wife Lisa, my daughter Samantha and, especially, Rusty's children Sophia and Ian.
We appreciate the opportunity to speak to you today and share with the Court the impact this crime has had on our family.
During our investigation and the trial, my mother has repeatedly asked me, "When is this about Rusty?" Unfortunately, I have been forced to explain to her this trial was really not about him. As a lawyer, I understand why that is so, but now it is important for you to know a little more about Rusty and why his murder and the subsequent loss of him from our lives is so devastating. There have been so many lies told to this court about Rusty, even to the extent of the defense shamefully equating my brother's life with that of this killer. So let's set the record straight:
*Rusty was a good provider -- Rusty achieved great success at every level of his education, from BHS to IU to HBS. His focus on achievement was to provide the very best for his family, which he did every day of his life. Attempts to characterize him as not providing properly for his family in this case are extremely hurtful and false. He had limitless potential which now can never be realized, because of that man.
full article at link .................. http://www.ajc.com/news/dunwoody-day-care-murder-1386554.html
Interesting and poignant how Steve does not address Rusty as being a good husband (not that he wasn't, but it was purposeful to leave AS out of this). And I love how he referred to AS as HN's "lover."
What a waste. RS sounds like a truly fantastic man and I'm sure his community lost a lot with his death. I was taken by the sincerity of HN's statement to the court - he seemed very remorseful. Except for the fact he committed this horrible crime, he comes across as a great guy. It's too bad he got sucked into some type of crazy web by AS.
I don't think you can "get sucked in" to anywhere you do not want to go. No matter what AS did or did not do, did or did not say, she did NOT pull the trigger. Blame her for bad behavior, yes, but I'm bumfoggled at people blaming her for the MURDER itself. If I was having an affair and my lover pressured me in any way to murder his wife, you don't think I would run as fast as I could away? Wouldn't you? Wouldn't almost all people? But not Hemy.
When my EX husband was messing around with one of his college students I was always amazed at the people who thought I should blame HER. :what: HE was the one that made the decision and took the actions. No matter WHAT she did, he is the one who chose his course.
Responsibity for one's OWN actions is life. When a child is caught with his hand in the cookie jar, whether another child told him to do it or not is moot. The saying my mother raised me on is "and if someone told you to jump in the fire, would you do that too?".
I don't think you can "get sucked in" to anywhere you do not want to go. No matter what AS did or did not do, did or did not say, she did NOT pull the trigger. Blame her for bad behavior, yes, but I'm bumfoggled at people blaming her for the MURDER itself. If I was having an affair and my lover pressured me in any way to murder his wife, you don't think I would run as fast as I could away? Wouldn't you? Wouldn't almost all people? But not Hemy.
When my EX husband was messing around with one of his college students I was always amazed at the people who thought I should blame HER. :what: HE was the one that made the decision and took the actions. No matter WHAT she did, he is the one who chose his course.
Responsibity for one's OWN actions is life. When a child is caught with his hand in the cookie jar, whether another child told him to do it or not is moot. The saying my mother raised me on is "and if someone told you to jump in the fire, would you do that too?".
Anyone in ATL as disappointed in 11Alive's anemic attempt at a "blockbuster review" of the case as I was??? Thankfully, the pros at the national level start soon, but I'll be interested to see how they "package" things!!
Sorry I've been out of touch the past couple of weeks...business stuff and add a couple of family calamaties to the mix, and I think y'all get the picture!! THANK YOU to all who provided the great updates during trial...it was AWESOME to leave a hospital room for a respite break, and get totally caught up on the trial happenings!!
Oh, I heard something on WSB radio as I was driving in last night that I've seen nowhere in print, nor in any of the post-verdict coverage. Reporter Jon Lewis, who is HIGHLY regarded for his ethics and credibility in this town, reported that he's been informed by a most reliable source that AS made her first "gee, the sketch could be Hemy" comment 2 DAYS after she INDEPENDENTLY VERIFIED THAT THE $2M INSURANCE CHECKS WERE NOT ONLY IN HER ACCOUNT, BUT HAD CLEARED THE ACCOUNTS THEY WERE DRAWN ON...Whiskey, Tango, Foxtrot????? I've ALWAYS been bothered by the life insurance and the speed with which she filed her claim(s), but this just puts a whole other face of PURE EVIL on that (*&^%$@!!!
Oops, the "real" Dateline is starting...
Westie Mom
I agree that HN is responsible. My blame of Andrea is not because she was a "bad girl" (although she broke the same vows Hemy did, IMHO) but because I suspect that she knew a lot more about this beforehand than can be proven so far.
James said she was not charged along with Neuman because "I have to prove a case beyond a reasonable doubt," he said.
"If I thought we had enough evidence, she'd have been sitting right next to him," he told the AJC.
Now, it appears, Andrea Sneiderman's own testimony may have provided prosecutors with that evidence.
"There were things she said on the stand ... it was the first time she had ever said those things," DeKalb Chief Deputy District Attorney Don Geary said.
I'm so mad at myself - I fell asleep last night ten minutes before the Dateline airing!!
Can someone please explain something I am totally confused on? How can the prosecutor or DA state in court that AS was a co-conspirator in this crime and then not charge her?
(I sure hope the Dateline episode is available online soon!)
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