Nope! NEVER. We have other measures for security- a large dog, knives, baseball bat, and outside lighting. I will never own a gun, nor will my husband have one in my presence. I have the local police programmed into my cell phone.
And I have had my apartment broken into previously.
So it's
not paranoia, irrational fear, or phobia to want to be prepared for an attack. Otherwise, no one would need large dogs, knives, baseball bats, outside lighting, or the police programmed into their cell phone. And excuse me, but I believe many people die each year from dogs, knives and baseball bats. It's not like you don't have deadly weapons in your home already.
I too have a large dog (plus a medium dog and a small dog), knives and outside lighting. (No baseball bats, or police programmed into my cell phone, though.) But if someone comes through the door in the middle of the night, it'll be my gun I reach for first. Dial 911 while keeping gun trained on bedroom door. The cops'll be along in 15 or 20 minutes.
Meanwhile, my large main dog will be ripping out their throat*, unless she gets killed or hurt too badly. If they make it past her and get to the bedroom, I won't be throwing my phone at them, and I won't let them get close enough for either of us to use a knife or a baseball bat.
* Yeah, I happen to know that about my large main dog. We had a friend who was scheduled to spend the night, who arrived past midnight, long after he was expected. He tried to sneak into the house so as not to wake us. He almost got his throat ripped out. This man has known our dog since she was a pup, and he had spent the night with us just a few days previously. But my smart girl wasn't about to let
anyone sneak into the house in the middle of the night, even someone she knows. Good girl!