I agree ClaireNC.
I exchanged emails with "Miracles for Little Man." I'm not sure how much I am allowed to share on WS, so consider everything below hypothetical and speculative.
Hypothetical Internet Store: "I am restricted on what I am able to discuss with you as the current case involving Deorr Kunz Jr. is an active and ongoing investigation. What I can say is I am a family friend and am active in pusuing (sic) all available methods to help this family in need. I have started the Miracle For Little Man site in an attempt to raise money for the family to have available for different avenues they would like to pursue to aid in finding their son. I have donated my own time and my own money towards all associated expenses with everything you see on the website. Unfortunatly (sic) I am unable to comment on if the money will go towards searching near the campsite, across the country, etc. What I can say is the money raised will go towards additional resources the family would like to employ to furthur (sic) their efforts. ALL of the proceeds at this time go to the family 100%. I am absorbing ALL of the expenses at this time, as time goes on and if it becomes a financial burden for me to continue to do that I will readjust my strategy. I cannot comment on any futher (sic) action the family is taking at this time."
Asked about 501(c)3 status and tax-deductible donations:
Hypothetical Internet Store: "I am not interested in receiving donations from "large donors" if they will look at their contribution as an investment and must have answers as to the status of the family and the investigation. The site is intended to target an audience of people who would just like to help and will not expect anything in return."
RKF: I wrote back: "Thank you for your thoughtful response.
Unfortunately, your explanation of who and what the money will go to is very vague. I have no reason to doubt your sincerity, but without providing basic information about the fundraiser, it will be difficult for a larger audience to trust that their money is going to help find DeOrr. If the main goal is to spread awareness, reaching beyond immediate friends and family is vital. One of the problems with this case from the beginning has been the secrecy surrounding DeOrr’s disappearance. The lack of information from the family and law enforcement has led to suspicion, certainly unfounded. It's not clear what you are trying to raise awareness of - DeOrr’s abduction, DeOrr being lost in the forest or missing children in general. I hate to see anyone waste their energies when it could be used more efficiently to meet an organization’s goal. By avoiding transparency, you are alienating a lot of people who want to help find DeOrr, but expect some accountability for the money they donate.
Good luck.. I hope DeOrr is found soon."
I didn't expect a response, but:
Hypothetical Internet Store: "Unfortunately, due to the specific characteristics of this case we are restricted to the information we are permitted to disclose. I understand people would like exact accountability for their hard earned money, however this case has certain restrictions unlike other fundraisers you may have been involved with. While we may be alienating a lot of people who would like to help we have also attracted attention from all over the country, and in fact all over the world who have offered to reach out and help with this effort. The only goal we have as an organization is to bring Little Deorr home with his family, we asses no monetary value or strive to meet any financial goal compared to having Little Deorr back home with his family, like I previously stated, the only mission we have as an organization is to bring Little Deorr home from wherever he may be. Unfortunately additional resources require additional money. Some people might feel uneasy in not knowing exactly where every penny may be spent, and some people (like me) could care less as long as I know it is going to somebody who needs it, and some people will think they are "privy" to certain information simply because they may have made a monetary contribution. Unfortunately our hands are tied in this matter and there is only limited actions we can conduct. Thank you for your time and we welcome any help you may have to offer after now knowing the specifics of this particular campaign, as we simply have to rely on people of good faith wanting to help without any recourse."
I sincerely hope these are well-meaning people who haven't thought through exactly what they're trying to do. I am suspicious that they won't/can't define their goal - what they're trying to raise awareness of, how money will help them do that, who exactly the money is going to and if it will be used to search around the campsite or across the country. That last part ought to be straight forward. If the family thinks he's been kidnapped, they don't need to spend money searching the campground. If they think he just wandered off, they don't need people in other parts of the country looking for him.