Wow rfk, Thanks you for reaching out and trying to find out what that site is all about. I had a lot of the same questions running through my head and really doubted their intentions. Now I doubt them even more. The owners names and telephone numbers are on the website. The owners initials are DB and KB and they are on the Help Find Deorr Kunz FB page. DB posted a link to the "Miracle" website yesterday and said that he is friends with Deorr and they talk often. He also said there are a lot of things going on behind the scenes that he is not able to mention in a public forum.
I am very highly suspicious of their intentions. I wonder if they really know the parents or if their "friendship" is just since little Deorr went missing. I wonder how much of the donations are going to the couple that is running the fundraiser? I know there are very strict rules about being a true non-profit. Are there rules about things like this? Is what they are doing illegal? It certainly sounds unethical.
It takes quite a while to set up a 501(c)3. There's a lot of paperwork and a lawyer should be hired to make sure everything is in order IMO. I checked the national non-profit database (which includes other 501s, not just (c)3s) and "miracles for little man" is not listed. I also think if they were a legitimate non-profit, she would have said so in her email. I don't think what they are doing is illegal, but it is definitely unethical. They may not even be doing it on purpose, just don't know any better. This site has no accountability. We have no way of knowing where the money is going. None. We are just supposed to trust them - people we've never met who may not even know DeOrr's family. I happen to believe they know them through SM and may be turning over any money accumulated. Non-profit does not mean "no expenses". Legitimate nonprofits pay their employees and expenses (such as shipping and "gifts" for certain donor levels, etc.) That's not a bad thing. Unless the person running the organization is independently wealthy, a charity can't stay "in business" without paying for the people/things that keep it going. A huge percentage of new non-profits don't last five years, many don't make it to the two-year mark. So if the answer was "I'm donating my time, but taking out the cost of the tea candle, 3x5 photo, plastic frame, rubber bracelet and printing the NCMEC ID kit that you can download for free on their site" that would have made more sense to me. "I am absorbing ALL of the expenses at this time, as time goes on and if it becomes a financial burden for me to continue to do that I will readjust my strategy." makes me feel more uncomfortable, because someone in her position could do everything for free now, but in a month decide she deserves 90% of the money collected. There is no oversight or accountability to donors. This is the internet equivalent of someone standing on the street corner begging for change or "offering" to wash your window at a stoplight. You have no idea if the person on the street is going to use your money to buy a meal or shoot up. And the only thing you get for giving to them is a moment of altruistic satisfaction or a smudged windshield. JMO
I could go on all night about this, but just realized I have veered way off topic. Sorry everyone!