I don't want to insinuate or imply in any way that any of this mess has anything to do with the LDS religioin. But all the key players were LDS so I am hoping someone can explain something to me.
What is the significance of the temple visits? Would it be normal for a married man and married woman to visit together without their spouses? Would they have had privacy? Does anyone who is LDS find it unusual for Lori and Chad to visit the Rexburg temple together before Tammy died? Personally I would think Chad would be recognized. Surely he had gone there with Tammy.
I am not familiar specifically with the Rexburg Temple.
Rexburg is a very LDS community and has enough demand to be in construction of a second temple though. And the current one is not small. Also the people who staff temples are volunteers and generally switch off, some work once a week, some work once a month, depending on their personal availability, generally. So a lot of people come and go to staff a temple. Some will come from a great distance. In my area, I know several people who work one shift a month, and drive close to 3 hours one way to do so. I know others who go once a week at the same distance. I know others who live 5 minutes away and do the same one evening a week or whatever. But I also don’t live in such a densely LDS community. I am not sure how big the Rexburg temple district is but since there is soon to be a second, I am sure it’s not that large.
Also, you may go to the temple by yourself, or with whomever you like. But again generally speaking, if it would be inappropriate to go anywhere with someone and your spouse not know about it then it would be absolutely be inappropriate to go to the temple with that person.
But the temple does not regulate who you come and go with. We are all adults and all accountable for our own actions before God.
Regarding privacy in the temple, no, being in the temple is private. It’s quiet and peaceful but not private. The Rexburg temple is fairly large, I would think it would be easy to run into someone Chad knows there. However as it is a place of holiness, unless they are running into each other on the way in or out, they are probably not stopping to have a long conversation about where his wife is. And they very possibly would not realize he was with another woman.
It makes me incredibly sick that these twisted people took my place
and Tammy’s place of refuge and peace and used it help to justify their disgustingness. Going to the temple is supposed to be sacred and uplifting and they used it to help justify murder. My heart hurts for those kids, but I am also so so sad that Tammy’s children have not stood up for her how they should. I just do not understand.
I am always amazed at the evilness in the world but these two are on a whole different level.