I'm probably in the minority, but I very much disagree, because I think we should not hope for things to happen contrary to ID law, even if we can sympathize with this aunt.
There are legal boundaries. What happens should the judge surpass them? It would give LD an avenue to claim her rights were trampled in getting a fair sentence, and then an appeals court could send it all back to start over (or worse).
It has happened before in an ID case on this very issue - the verdict was overturned because the judge pushed the limits and beyond.
ID says a victim is the person who had the crime done to them, and they can speak of the impact the crime had on them. In a murder their immediate family (parent, child, sibling) can be there to represent them and speak for them. Tammy left behind plenty of immediate family to speak out on her behalf. That law must be followed.
This verdict is almost over the finish line now. Goodness, whatever you do, don't screw it up now. While I feel sorry for this aunt, I applaud the judge for putting justice ahead of emotion.