I've turned to thinking about the two personalities involved here and how it could possibly be broken down from the outside, through psychological interference, if there is a chance that working one of them could aid a resolution. Although obviously preferable for law enforcement to just act now and get their behinds into custody! It is not coincidence that everything just miraculously came together to enable their nuptials, and departure from all parental and familial responsibilities.
I started out this case thinking that Lori was no question the dominant personality in their relationship and how they came to be together and all that entailed - including the deaths and disappearances. Now I'm leaning more towards Chad.
It didn't seem like that to me initially because I can see (imo) how she has made her own decisions here, involving her brother Alex, her own late husband and her missing children, and her sociopathic traits. But, if she was the dominant one (and I do believe there has to be a dominant one in relationships involving surrounding death and destruction, for there to be chemistry), I think it's important to note that Chad has been deluded (imo) for much longer than Lori, and that if he didn't know before about what Lori did to get out of her former life he does now. It hasn't moved him. He's resolute and defiant. His arrogance is greater than hers. She looks to him for reaction a few times when Nate is asking questions. His raised eyebrows and eye rolls speak more to me than her sunglasses and pursed lips, she glances at the notice in her hand, she attempts to conceal her baggie of money when Nate points it out, and she seemingly couldn't resist making one response to Nate. She is listening and Chad is not.
I've revisited some of what I've been able to find about folie-a-deux, shared delusions/psychosis. There is an interesting case study at the below link of a husband and wife who met and married within weeks and then isolated themselves socially before commiting murder, despite it most commonly occurring in people who have known each other a long time.
It states that -
the primary case is typically dominant, intelligent , forceful, and autonomous. The secondary case is usually dependant, submissive, highly suggestible, less intelligent, more passive, infantile, and more prone to hysteria (5,6). He/she offers little resistance to accepting the ideas of the primary subject and does not elaborate upon those ideas. Several authors have characterized the passive person with a premorbid personality as " prepsychotic," and with "a marked personality disturbance with suspicious, histrionic, antisocial, or dependent traits" (6). Social isolation of the subjects is common in this form of folie a deux and has been found to limit environmental input and opportunities for reality testing. However, one reassuring feature of folie impose'e is that psychotic symptoms usually recede upon separation of the involved subjects. https://jdc.jefferson.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1339&context=jeffjpsychiatry
It's worrying - to me - because I had wondered if pleading to his sensibilities and ties as a family man, playing to his ignorance of the trail that precedes Lori (even if he wasn't ignorant), might be the way in. Now I think she is the one who was susceptible, her sociopathy was a vital ingredient to her resolving what 'needed' to be done in her life to get into Chad's, and predisposed her to being attracted to his grandiosity, and sharing in the 'enlightenment' and power. I believe he thinks he is untouchable because he is 'chosen' and he is the primary mover in this partnership, and Lori bought into his delusion, and she then went through a process of convincing herself she is equally untouchable, as his mistress, before Charles was shot.
Given that, I think they will need to be forcibly separated and there will be no other way of resolving this or pleading to either of them to do the right thing. Failing apprehension by law enforcement, I think Lori will die before he is taken. It is a twist on those folk who say he is the one who should be sleeping with one eye open.
MOO